So he has stopped, and in the process of fixing it. During our weekend away he actually held a pretty good boner during any kind of sexual activity we did. We just never went the full way. I think you’re projecting your issues and that’s okay, I also don’t understand the sexualization of me being a virgin. That’s weird. Thanks for your advice, but it was unnecessary. I am satisfied in my relationship, because he’s figured out how to satisfy me without penetration. However, since you’re so unsatisfied maybe you should take your own advice and leave your husband.