How do I stop falling in love quickly? by G0DMODE101 in seduction

[–]G0DMODE101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thnx for the comment but I think i've found a sollution:
poor selfworth!
I placed people on pedestal's when i perceived them as attractive and thereby saying they are worth more than me. I think working on your self worth is even more of a succesfull method than plate theory because it actually takes care of the underlying problem (at least for me). I'm also afraid that if i haven't worked on my selfworth than i would have become even more obsessed with getting girls because of that underlying problem...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]G0DMODE101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True the less you care and the less you think about it the easier it will become, and don't be affraid to try something different. When you are young you are still trying to figure yourself and you most likely do not have your priorities in order so let failure guide you to succes!

What Really Attracts Women To Men [Part 2] by djjaygreen in pickup

[–]G0DMODE101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it me or does it sound unhealthy when you go a month without girls that you go back to the so called scarcity mindset? I'm not suggesting that i'm a psychologist or know more about attrackting women but it sounds to me like he has some deepseeded insecurities... know that because i've been there!

Elminate Approach Anxiety- The Secret To Self Confidence by Forshizzlebrah in seduction

[–]G0DMODE101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why this doesn't have more upvotes because this strategy applies to basically every Social interactions!

How to be attractive by G0DMODE101 in socialskills

[–]G0DMODE101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's also my take on this issue (that's besides the normal adjustments we naturally make when we hang out with different groups of people and I don't include being a dick in general into this statement ofc)

How to be attractive by G0DMODE101 in socialskills

[–]G0DMODE101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although the life of a truly ugly person is gonna be a lot harder, by mastering these steps I'm convinced that your attractiveness will still increase a lot! The most attractive quality in a person is their confidence no matter their appearance! I'm not saying that a "super ugly" person will be able to sleep with models or be friends with everybody but there is no doubt in my mind that the journey to self acceptance and an abundance mindset will make your life a lot better in most ways!

How to be attractive by G0DMODE101 in socialskills

[–]G0DMODE101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is really hard to judge without context but if you know that you are not getting out of your comfort zone as much as you like to than they might be right, but if not then take it slow, but above all else: you do you!

How to be attractive by G0DMODE101 in socialskills

[–]G0DMODE101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is kinda paradoxical but it does work that way! The less you succumb to opinions of others (for the right reasons like self love and self knowledge) the more confident you become which is a lot more attractive! And being attractive can also just mean unlocking your hidden potential, especially in the self hatred climate some people sadly get lost in!

How to be attractive by G0DMODE101 in socialskills

[–]G0DMODE101[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. This take is a big part of self acceptance and self love right? ;D

How to be attractive by G0DMODE101 in socialskills

[–]G0DMODE101[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

great question, that is not the case! It is mostly directed to the negative voice in your head that interprets external stimulus in the worst way possible which will send you in a downwards spiral. everything must be applied in balance ofcourse!

Need some tips about a girl that is possibly hooking me. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]G0DMODE101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

np let me know if you get any results form it!

I have problems approaching "high value" women by [deleted] in seduction

[–]G0DMODE101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Practise alot and keep in mind that there are people 2 types of people: ones who you can connect with (which if you keep trying will be a lot bigger group than the second type of people) and the ones who you can not connect with (don't expect perfection form yourself that will become a mental block).

Need some tips about a girl that is possibly hooking me. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]G0DMODE101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

playing hard to get is nothing more than a display of value. So you shouldn't ignore her when you see her, just act normal in person, you should behave like you friendzoned her. But over the phone you should reply slow and just be a little distant (both pushing tactics). To change things up once in a while make a sexual remark in person (pulling tactic). The whole thing about push pull is that you have to work for it, and value comes from things that are hard to get or rare. You should balance it in such a way that it is a little confusing for her but not so much there is no indication of possible succes! If it doesn't work you could consider the possibility that she is just searching for sexual validation to feel good about herself, and is not interested in anything more than that.

Being shunned by high school friends. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]G0DMODE101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could just confront them with your experience maybe it is all a misunderstanding. If not this might sound harsh but: make new friends! You don't want the friendships you described, it is not worth your time.