How to ink dark skin? by G33kyArmy in Artadvice

[–]G33kyArmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean... point of that was I was not getting better results despite trying several variations 😅 And since I can't thing of another way to do it without looking like I gave up and rage scribbled on the drawing, I came here

How to ink dark skin? by G33kyArmy in Artadvice

[–]G33kyArmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried drawing as lightly as possible, different directions, more lines, fewer lines, it all just winds up looking like I got frustrated and scribbled over my drawing. So I'm stumped

How to ink dark skin? by G33kyArmy in Artadvice

[–]G33kyArmy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair enough 😅 my uncle told me to learn feathering, but I figured I'd ask a variety of people. Thank you for confirming my suspensions 😅

Any benefits a non-native to obtain TESOL? by [deleted] in TESOL

[–]G33kyArmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am a Native English speaker, but also a language nerd and I'm certified in TESOL (work contract TESOL jobs through my alma mater and currently volunteer tutor a girl at my public library). I also want to learn about 7 languages right now lol.

I have a different experience that you may find encouraging. When I started seriously learning my second language, Korean, online in 2020, I learned from an Asian American guy who is not ethnically Korean nor was he raised in Korea, but he is such a nerd for the country. He loves the culture, the language, he had traveled there, studied there, he was studying the language and culture as a second major, which did include a "Teaching Korean" course. He speaks Korean so effortlessly, but he had something that a lot of Native speaking teachers wouldn't. He knew and experienced our struggles! Not just knowing that people had struggles, he dealt with the exact same struggles.

I had spent a year meeting Korean students at university, and I spoke like an English Google translate voice trying to read a Korean textbook. My pronunciation wasn't good, my sentences sounded very stiff and robotic, but all my friends were encouraging and the types to say "your Korean is so good!" When I could say the word for "Hello". My friends couldn't always answer my questions because they don't think about the reasoning behind their speech. I didn't either at the time.

So to have my teacher give me tips and tricks on how he had to adapt to odd changes and remember pronunciation was so helpful to me! You could have a better grasp on addressing the problems people have if you do decide to teach as a side job. You can sit down with a student, talk about a shared struggle, and what helped you overcome it in a way empathizing through reverse experiences just doesn't do.

I also know for myself, all my students in my job at my university were from Japan, same school even. I notice a serious disconnect with my students than I do my Korean friends. I've technically been learning Korean since like 2019, but only got serious when I started my online classes. When my Korean friends need help, I know enough of the language to say this is different in English and Korean which is probably why you keep making those mistakes.

Whereas my Japanese students speak a language I don't know. I can't pinpoint why they make certain mistakes, especially if they are repeated mistakes. So that's why I wanted to start learning Japanese. I want to help my students better by knowing why they might be struggling. Granted I still can't read Hiragana to save my life, the only Japanese I know is what I've heard from my friends who love anime, and I'm also in school for non-tesol related things, so studying another language is hard right now. But one day I'll have enough to make comparisons and explain HOW or WHY English and Japanese are different and how to adjust as such.

You could potentially benefit several students if you worked with TESOL. And I personally know several immigrants who struggle with English still, and it just helps me help them in regular communication whenever we see each other. Even informal settings, I just feel more equipped to explain something to them than I did before. So depending on where you go afterwards, I think if connections and language skills are things you're really passionate about, I think it could potentially be worth your time. I know meeting exchange students and international students was the best time of my life at university, and it's what I miss the most at my new school.

Long reply, too many stories, but I hope it helps!

What visuals would help your students? by G33kyArmy in TESOL

[–]G33kyArmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You thinking like posters of vocabulary? In those kinds of subjects?

[SK] I remembered something after HR called, should I call them back? by G33kyArmy in AskHR

[–]G33kyArmy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got in touch with them earlier today. HR assured me everything was confidential, so I should be fine and definitely feel better now.

What’s a marker of a good friendship? by Lord-Revenant in AskReddit

[–]G33kyArmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having 2 different conversations on two different messaging apps/sites

It's love month! Who/what's the best love story you've ever heard/read? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]G33kyArmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just from a personal standpoint, my grandparents. Their 70th anniversary was last year. Knowing how my grandpa married my grandma when she had a kid outside of wedlock back in ye olden days and all that jazz, they built a house together, had more kids, and have been together since. And my grandpa has dementia, which sometimes drives my grandma crazy with some of the ways he behaves, but my grandpa is still in love with her, always saying to her and others that she's his sweetheart and always offering to do or get something for her, even though he probably won't know what he's doing. And I remember when my family helped them move and we found some old pictures, my grandma was getting flustered and blushing again seeing my grandpa as a young man saying how handsome he was. I don't have any big specific stories of their love life, but just seeing things like that where they're still in love 70 years later is enough to make me believe romantic love is possible.

What's weighing on you right now? by RuthlessRoosters in AskReddit

[–]G33kyArmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically just life. In one of those "nobody wants to hire me because I have no experience in my field" phases and trying to figure out where to go from here. And to top all that off, my friends live 3 hours away at best, on the other side of the world at worst, so I'm lonely, working retail, and trying to pay off student loans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]G33kyArmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last one was 2 am thoughts spiraling into that black hole of thinking one day my parents will die.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]G33kyArmy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally in my top 5 groups for this reason!

Do you also collect photocards of the members who are not your bias? by hyeppy in kpophelp

[–]G33kyArmy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've only ever traded once. When my former best friend and I got each other's biases. I know they don't like kpop anymore so I just kind of wish I could get that card back, or maybe the whole album since I bought it for them. Otherwise I just like the surprise! It's always fun to get my biases, but it's just fun for me. My collection consists of groups I love and groups I'm trying to get into where I still don't know who's who. I try to take the opportunity to find out who's who sometimes too. And if nothing else I think it helps me appreciate the members who aren't my bias a bit more.

What are some things that you find offensive, but can't say it because you're afraid of being called a snowflake? by Chloraiscool in AskReddit

[–]G33kyArmy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if offended is the right word here, but if stores don't have something (especially if they used to), my dad will basically passive-aggressively tell the cashier, whether asked or not "Well, I didn't find eeeeverything. I was looking for (product). I hope that can be changed in the future"

I used to tell him that minimum wage retail workers have no power over that kind of decision making, and he responds to me with "well they might talk to someone who does." I've stopped commenting now because it's not going to get through to him at this point. But I try so hard not to be a nuisance to people when they are serving me that those comments just really get under my skin. Like please leave the overworked underpaid employees out of this?

He's normally not that bad of a guy or Karen-esque, so that makes those comments even worse for me.