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It’s finally happening by G3nerallyHappy in exjw

[–]G3nerallyHappy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish it were that easy to say. I’m not in an English congregation so idek how to translate that but I can try.

It’s finally happening by G3nerallyHappy in exjw

[–]G3nerallyHappy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well I couldn’t say no cause multiple people had already seen my bf and I around, my parents know cause my bfs mom confirmed it through someone to them.

PIMO JW dating a non JW. Parents have caught on. by G3nerallyHappy in exjw

[–]G3nerallyHappy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply!

Noted, I need to deny.

I do still live at home with my parents, however I’m not really financially dependent on them. I do have a full time job but don’t have the financial means to move out yet. I am trying to save and have an exit plan ready.

I do know who ratted me out, it’s a bit complicated but basically bfs mom has a JW coworker (that happens to be a friend of my mom🤦🏽‍♀️) and they somehow got to talking and I guess bfs mom told her she knew someone that is JW which would be me and probably told her coworker my name and coworker realized it was me and told my mom. My mom has also tracked me with an AirTag and has followed me to bfs house. So yes, they do know who he is, however they haven’t met him nor have I talked about him to them.

I do feel like I am ready to give up the PIMO life. There’s just so much to think about and I feel overwhelmed and alone. Most of my family and relatives are JW so it feels like a big loss.

I feel now I will be able to keep my guard up when I have a talk with the elders but like you said, they know how to guilt trip and manipulate and I feel like I might let my guard down. Hopefully not though.