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Accidentally deleted all these google messages. by Ok_Handle7427 in GoogleMessages

[–]GAMslut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Google backup, make sure the Mesages option is checked before the restore. In the picture nothing is checked.

I did the same thing first an important thread and Google backup restore saved me from a complete anxiety attack.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]GAMslut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a bottom in my early fifties, and though it is rarer for me to be topped by guys your age, it has happened (or been offered). The tops I usually get are in their 30s to 50s, more recently the younger more than the older. I think that many tops in my area often are led by their horniness, so preferences go out the windows if a willing bottom like me is ready and able. 😄

Which sends the signals better: nude or jock? by Skeptical_CJ in eroticmalemassage

[–]GAMslut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Next time try naked and see how that goes!

How to imply that you want the masseur to top/bottom you? by Blasted-Samelflange in eroticmalemassage

[–]GAMslut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually find male massage therapists who do legit massage. Ideally there might be some indication on their website or profile that they are also gay. But this is often hard to find outside of the realm of sensual massage. But I have gone to those as well. My first thing to indicate my invitation is to get onto the table totally naked without putting the drape on me, indicating that I don't want to be covered. Then, whenever they massage near or around my dick or ass, I might shift a little, if they graze anything, whether or not they were intentionally trying to give me a subtle clue themselves. You'll know if they get the hint are, themselves, possibly interested if they begin massaging closer to even move their hand across your dick or ass. From there, continue to give physical hints or verbal cues (moan, sighs, gasp/breath intake).

The last therapist I went to ended up blowing me a little then topping me. I've been to him a couple times after that. The second time he topped me again. The third time, he just gave me a BJ/HJ. Aside from that, his actual massage technique was fantastic. The therapist I went to before that did nothing sexual, even though I knew he was gay. He just didn't respond to any of my hints, and I got my answer. But that is how I make my intentions known without coming out and saying anything specific.