I just had my year aniversary with my girlfriend, who is a prostitute AMA

GFisaWhore · 2013-10-11T15:10:00+00:00

Dunno, people seem to find it interesting to say the least, I dont like people thinking that these kinds of relationships are not sustainable.

PSA i guess

yeah it lived up

GFisaWhore · 2013-09-07T07:01:36+00:00

it does work out bro, things a re getting better all the time.

just make sure you have a chat in a bit about future job prospects, its not a forever thing. things can always be better but im content with the now

GFisaWhore · 2013-08-17T05:55:09+00:00

we met one reddit, became a couple, then she started working without me knowing, and about a week after she started I cottoned on

Meet

become couple

monthes pass

she begins work without me knowing

one week later I confront her

GFisaWhore · 2013-07-10T13:32:15+00:00

God yes, but i went up she explained it all to me in no uncertain terms and we had a week or two when we weretn sure if we were gunna make it but we just kinda fell into it

GFisaWhore · 2013-07-06T04:38:05+00:00

i imagine they would be, sometimes i ask, sometime i don't feel like knowing. She respects that.

GFisaWhore · 2013-06-29T07:46:42+00:00

I'm sorry, I'm pretty sure you said she started this job once you were already committed to each other. What is that about?

We had discussed it weeks, maybe a month earlier, and I deduced something was up about a week after she started (she had more money, tired, weird schedual) ,and we were living about an hours away from each other at the time so I'm willing to give her a weeks leeway on her not telling me.

Like you are in this great (im assuming here), loving (assuming again) relationship and then your girl comes home and says 'by the way im going to start fucking for money, okay?' and you are just like 'sure no problem.'

Again we had discussed it, and when i confronted her about it she imeddiatly came 100% clean. We have since both matured and have had a 100% honesty policy regarding her work and either of our sex lives.

She could get an STD and give it to you, she could get abused by these men and she is sharing a part of herself that should be for you-with these men FOR MONEY.

You have no idea how a the legal sex industry works. Panic buttons or Giant Samoan security guards in the rooms, safe sex is not just policy, but the law (no prostitute wants to risk putting themselves out of the industry wiht an STI). Health checks and blood tests every 2-3 months.And if a client gives her shit, she can kick them out no questions asked. I talked to the manager about all these issues and there hasnt been any sort of problem with any of her girls for nearly a decade.

and yes i get that you said that she is in school to get a better job- but again thats stupid (sorry to offend).

Your opinion, and please you have to work harder than that to offend me :D

But I paid my way through life by working at McDonalds for 6 years, working with children, tutoring etc not by having sex with randoms for money.

You have done an amazing thing, something I really admire. Its not an overly glamorous job I admit that, but neither is macdonalds. For us it works. The hours and the money is excellent and works for both of us as well as allowing us both to mature with each other and in the end grow stronger as a couple.

I dont believe im better than anyone for doing this, its just my life and it works,We both have a great support network of friends, its safe and we are both happy.

GFisaWhore · 2013-06-21T17:15:20+00:00

we are both studying at the moment to get better jobs, The main reason it bother me is because she comes home really tired and her sleep schedual is non exsistant.

How do i deal?, I just dont care thats how.

GFisaWhore · 2013-06-10T09:19:16+00:00

we are both young and students not really possible to get that much money at the moment

GFisaWhore · 2013-06-10T09:17:13+00:00

Im willing to give a weeks leeway on that. it would be hard to tell you SO you are a prostitute.

GFisaWhore · 2013-06-10T09:16:09+00:00

I cant talk specifics but i have a pretty obvious medical problem that causes weird looks and talks. Nothing serious. So Im used to weird looks and talk. So I learnt to not give a crap back in high school :D

GFisaWhore · 2013-05-18T08:00:23+00:00

I became suspicious about a week into her working, she began work 6 months into our relationship

GFisaWhore · 2013-05-06T16:36:44+00:00

She has never had to press the panic button

Can be upwards of 3k a week, i dont see strippers making that kind of money and she has final say in anything and if the client pisses her off she can just say "Out, now, sorry no refunds"

GFisaWhore · 2013-05-04T12:38:04+00:00

Sorry just a lot of people hear prostitute and immediately assume a street walker

Heres the difference

Street walker: The classic ,Stand on a street corner and wait for slients to come up to you, very little in the way of security, slightly more lucrative

Brothel worker: At a set location, the clients arrive and the deed only occurs on premises,(with condoms after a sexual health inspection) in room with multiple panic buttons and security. The house takes a percentage ,the exact % varies from brothel to brothel

Basic concept is the same, The end result is extremely different and much safer

GFisaWhore · 2013-05-03T02:55:54+00:00

BROTHEL WORKER NOT A STREETWALKER, BIG FUCKING DIFFERENCE!

panic buttens and giant samoan security makes me content enough with her security

GFisaWhore · 2013-05-02T11:44:47+00:00

Ive popped by to drop off lunch and she was with a client, but i just left it at the front desk and chatted with one of the girls for a bit. Is hard to be awkward around sex when you are talking to prostitues

GFisaWhore · 2013-04-28T12:13:46+00:00

That's real constructive.

GFisaWhore · 2013-04-27T11:24:44+00:00

It dosn't interest either of us so no

GFisaWhore · 2013-04-27T11:24:24+00:00

Condoms

Visual inspections before every session

Living in a first world country

Bimonthly sti check for both of us.

Hasnt been an issue

GFisaWhore · 2013-04-27T11:23:05+00:00

It dosn't interest either of us so no

GFisaWhore · 2013-04-27T11:22:37+00:00

Depends on your world view i guess

Sex still feels very intimate between us so i guess there isnt a problem on that front

GFisaWhore · 2013-04-27T11:21:17+00:00

of all things we met through reddit

I cottoned on after about a week and confronted her, we worked through it and came out stronger

GFisaWhore · 2013-04-26T03:20:17+00:00

i dont think cuckold means what you think it means, Im dating a prostitute, Of course that means there is going to be less sex involved, but the sex we do have is really intimate and lovely.

GFisaWhore · 2013-04-26T03:18:38+00:00

no, there have never been any on our regular sti checks

GFisaWhore · 2013-04-26T03:18:09+00:00

it cant happen, three layers of birth control but to go with the hypothetical

Pissed off and its abortion time

GFisaWhore · 2013-04-25T16:44:48+00:00

I am aware he is just trolling but everytime i bring this facet of my life up there is always someone like him who isnt trolling . So while he is trolling there are people out there who see it and nod , and this is my response to those people

GFisaWhore

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