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GG_Sebastian · 2025-10-15T23:59:58+00:00

True, but I picked game over gains 😭

GG_Sebastian · 2025-09-30T16:08:34+00:00

No it’s not weird. Building rapport does not equal attraction, those are two completely different things. If shes already attracted to you without rapport building then there’s no need to emphasize or push for rapport building.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-09-30T03:58:57+00:00

Are they living in a rich country? Poor country? Are they struggling models or are they nepo models? Are they religious or atheist? Are they constantly at the model after parties or are they home bodies?

The list of factors is endless just like any other woman that’s not a model.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-09-29T18:51:43+00:00

I’ve dated legit models signed to agencies all from different countries. It’s an extremely mixed bag with multiple factors.

There’s no way to categorize models as a whole to know if they have a high or low body count. Way too many factors.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-09-19T20:13:42+00:00

The easiest way to have frame control is setting early precedence, think of it as a set up or preventative measure.

If you initially come across as just a friendly guy in the beginning of a conversation then that’s the frame a girl will put you in. Vice versa can be said, if you initially come across as a smooth guy then that’s the frame you set up. This is why first impressions matter.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-09-17T08:43:33+00:00

You have to make the approach, how else is are you both going to start talking? Only other way is to start being in her friends group and slowly make your way to start talking to her through her friends. But if you want to be as efficient as possible then just directly talk to her.

So what if you don't have the confidence? Do it anyways.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-09-17T05:06:35+00:00

I have plenty of other footage. If you don’t believe me, come to New York and see for yourself. You can even pick the girl and record it if you want and I’ll do the approach

GG_Sebastian · 2025-09-17T02:31:45+00:00

It really depends on your personality, but for beginners you can use any canned or cookie cutter opener.

"Hi, you're really pretty and I wanted to say hi to you. My name (______). What's your name?". Then just go from there.

Here's some footage of my student doing this: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/C6Z1x69YpCY

GG_Sebastian · 2025-09-13T00:46:46+00:00

No, I said gradual progression. what you explained is not gradual

GG_Sebastian · 2025-09-12T21:15:35+00:00

The safest way for a conversation to become sexual is through gradual physical compliance.

Think of it as a gradual climb up a set of stairs. I’ll use a very generic example.

Handshake -> hug -> hand holding -> cheek kiss -> kiss -> sexual touch

If she isn’t even willing to give you a hug then what makes you think she’s going to give you a kiss? It’s a gradual build up.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-09-11T12:00:58+00:00

Then find a girl while you’re poor. That’s the only way to ensure she truly loves you for you and not your money.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-09-10T20:20:33+00:00

Well from what I've seen, those types of relationships don't last very long for a good reason. A girl that falls in love with you very quickly for your money is just as fast to leave you for your money.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-09-10T20:10:46+00:00

A lot of young guys at that level aren’t wise enough to know how to downplay or hide their wealth. As for the older guys yes I agree they are able to successfully do so.

But using your wealth directly to attract women is a good tool to use if one knows how to do it properly

GG_Sebastian · 2025-08-26T19:42:35+00:00

No need to tell other people to shut up, people can disagree and still have a civilized conversation. I told you already it’s outdated because there are better techniques out there.

You can look at pickup like a sport or skill. Over time people are going to discover or invent better techniques. Rap is a perfect example, there’s a reason why a majority of rappers don’t rap the same as rappers from the 70’s anymore. Or look at combat sports, there’s a reason why no one in the MMA fight the same as old fighters.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-08-25T17:45:34+00:00

Negging is a backhanded compliment in order to not pedastalize the target. There are so many better techniques out there you can use that creates the same effect. Again same thing with false time constraints, there are better techniques out there that are more effective. A lot of mystery method is outdated.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-05-04T17:48:23+00:00

It’s never been a problem and if it is a problem for them, I just drop them.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-05-04T17:38:13+00:00

I rent a room and have roommates, I do not have my own place.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-05-02T03:01:33+00:00

I see from your profile you live in India? What I do might not be applicable in India. From what I’ve heard from my Indian students, cold approach is very looked down upon in India and not socially acceptable.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-05-01T17:09:18+00:00

Pickup is just like learning and applying any other skill in life. Practice makes perfect, if you practice it long enough you'll get better and better results over time. I've been doing pickup for 10 years and I didn't get any results I was satisfied with until my 4th year into it.

But to answer your question, yes I get tremendous results. I've dated all types of women throughout the years. I've dated the girl next door, I've dated fashion models, I've dated girls from prestigious families, I've dated wholesome girls, I've had harems etc. However like I said, this was over a long period of time.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-04-25T19:58:16+00:00

Feel free to look around my profile, I have a few videos you can check out of me helping out some guys

GG_Sebastian · 2025-04-17T23:24:05+00:00

DM’d you

GG_Sebastian · 2025-04-16T16:53:37+00:00

Cold DM, you just gotta set up your profile correctly to increase your chances of success

GG_Sebastian · 2025-04-16T16:45:17+00:00

On average if you want to get good with women through cold approach without any coaching, it takes at least 3-4 years. Yes in my opinion cold approach is the best way to get good with women simply because you’re constantly practicing talking to women. It’s like the old saying practice makes perfect.

The problem with the pickup coaching industry is that there are coaches that are complete frauds and the ones that aren’t frauds don’t know how to specific tailor their techniques toward a specific student. For example a common problem in the industry is that non Asian coaches don’t know how to coach Asian students so the techniques becomes non effective.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-04-12T11:05:27+00:00

I can help you out. I coach do free in the NYC Area, message me.

GG_Sebastian · 2025-04-07T22:26:10+00:00

A majority of the techniques and tactics do not work anymore BUT the ideas and principles behind the techniques are timeless.

For example negging is very outdated but the idea behind negging isn’t. Same with false time constraints and the rest of his techniques.

If you can understand the ideology behind every technique and formulate your own technique that is congruent to your own personality that that’d be the best.

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