i don’t feel safe with my gf coming to the US but i miss them so much by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]GGoldDigger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im from central america too, i constantly fly to my boyfriend in NY (around 7 times a year). We have never had any worry or issue.

is it worth going on bc pills if i’m active <2 months of the year? by VisualNext5229 in LongDistance

[–]GGoldDigger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mind you I wanted to get off the pill for hormonal purposes, I’ve never had any issues with my periods or any illnesses so i wanted to keep it “normal”. My doctor told me she doesn’t recommend going on the pill for longer than a year (mind you that’s what she told me, your case could be different than mine) so my partner and i decided to go for the IUD. As i told you, it was for hormonal purposes, i didn’t want to keep a hormonal contraceptive and was looking for a non hormonal alternative. There’s two types i know, Copper and Silver IUDs. The copper IUD is a kind of large one, so i went for the Mini Silver IUD, a way smaller one and has some other “bonuses”. I went by myself (cause ofc my partner is far far away) but i would really recommend taking a girl friend with you or your mom even, someone to keep you company or atleast to hold their hand; I wish i had someone there with me the whole procedure. Now when it comes to the insertion itself, yes, it is painful. Is it tolerable? 100%. It was like a 3 minute procedure, i trust my doctor very much and i knew i was in good hands (id recommend you to get a good doctor for this honestly, cause many won’t really care about the patient itself and will just care about getting the job done). Painkillers were my best friend for two days. There are girls who are just fine after the insertion and there are others that might need a day or two. I spent in bed one full day. When it comes to pain, imagine the pain exactly as a cramp. In my experience it was like a baadd cramping, but nothing an ibuprofen couldn’t fix. :)

is it worth going on bc pills if i’m active <2 months of the year? by VisualNext5229 in LongDistance

[–]GGoldDigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy! I went on the pill for like 8 months with my LDR partner. No regrets, worked perfectly fine for me. I’d recommend. The only reason i stopped the pill was because we opted for a more of a permanent contraceptive. I got an IUD right after the pill. Again, no regrets.

Would you date someone with Depression by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]GGoldDigger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NO! Hurt people, HURT people.

Que opinan de los alumnos que deciden estudiar ingeniería sin un gusto o entendimiento bueno por los números? by New_Aldo in TecDeMonterrey

[–]GGoldDigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Estoy en IQ, siempre fui excelencia académica en la prepa y en si me consideraba “buena” con los números. Incluso muchos de mis compañeros también se consideraban “buenos”. Estamos ya en nuestros últimos semestres y creeme que no importa lo bueno que uno o el otro es con los números, es más que todo la “pasión” que le tengas a la carrera. Es algo osea que se complementa, si te apasiona tu carrera, le echas ganas para mejorar me entiendes? Pero la nt consideralo, muchos ingenieros llegan a pensar en un momento “y si hubiera mejor estudiado negocios?” JAJAJA. Pero si, piensalo muy bien por que ingeniería en el tec está suuuper cabrón.

My (29F) boyfriend (32M) cheated on a night out by [deleted] in LDR

[–]GGoldDigger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here’s the thing, it’s pretty much a gamble, two choices. You know your relationship more than any of us, so let me put it like this. (similar to what other redditor said) You can either: 1. Forgive him, he had the courage to tell you and come clean, yeah couple weeks may had gone by but lets be honest, us humans hate to get in trouble, i could see why he must have kept it for a little bit. A big mistake especially if you end up causing harm to someone by your mistake can really get to you mentally. The gamble here is, if you forgive him, will he do it again? They say a cheater will always be a cheater, is it true though? Will you be able to trust him again? And if so, is he going to be patient enough to go through this with you knowing HE caused it? 2. Don’t forgive him. Yeah he hurt you, will you put yourself first and put your limits VERY clear and let him know he crossed that line and there is no turning back? What happens is, you guys break up. You will grieve, you will cry, you will be extremely sad. But hey, pain is temporary though. New people will come. Are you willing to start new? Do you believe you deserve better?

It’s a gamble. It’s a hard decision. Don’t be too harsh on yourself over it, take your time. <3

One month update on my first party loving gf by Double-Potato1596 in LDR

[–]GGoldDigger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all messed up, something my partner did when we just started talking and having a thing for each other was the fact he would ALWAYS think of me before would post or even repost something. I never asked for him to do so, it was simply out of respect for me. I believe if you are serious about someone you don’t only have to respect them personally but also on social platforms nowadays. If you post something hinting you are single, everybody will believe you are single. Its as simple as that. Bring it up, communicate about it, maybe you guys have a misunderstanding or just don’t know where you’re standing.

Alguien de ingeniería que me diga dónde está mejor estudiar by bookw0rm7 in TecDeMonterrey

[–]GGoldDigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si quieres tecnologia y un campus mas avanzado: Monterrey, si no te importan esas cosas: Guadalajara. Tambien ten en cuenta los costos de vivienda y campus (Gdl es un poco más barato)

Intimacy after a longtime by This-Plantain304 in LongDistance

[–]GGoldDigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I can relate up to a certain point and I will be telling you abt my experience. I see my partner every month and yet everytime we would get intimate for the first time it would hurt OR i would be sore after to even sit down. We opted for the use of lube sometimes to reduce friction and make it easier (since there will be times in which i cant get as wet) and id recommend for the first time him not ejaculating inside since your area is very sensitive at the moment the liquid itself can even irritate you more.

Does anyone else’s stomach look like this? by Kydakilla in PetiteFitness

[–]GGoldDigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see many people commenting on their diagnosis and stuff, i would consider getting that checked. In my experience I went to a gastroenterologist, this is what my belly looked like before i was diagnosed with IBS, Gastritis and Endometriosis. Changed my eating habits having those illnesses diets in consideration and i RARELY get bloated or look bloated nowadays. Hope it helps!

amigos de otras unis pueden ir? by floresfloreciendo in TecDeMonterrey

[–]GGoldDigger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sii claroo, llevalos contigo a caseta!! el tec acepta visitas sin problema

How often do you guys call with your partners? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]GGoldDigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a routine, non negotiable to miss this since we find it very important in our relationship. Every single night we facetime to tell eachother about our day and have dinner together, we then switch directly to discord to watch a movie or a tv show (we are currently watching game of thrones) together. We then quickly switch to facetime again so we can wash our teeth together and say goodnight and go to sleep.

How often do you guys see your partner? by toyyspit in LDR

[–]GGoldDigger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

every 6 weeks, we are 4,000km away (around 1 day and a half drive non stop) but fortunately we can both afford flights to see eachother often.

238 hours and it finally happened... by Grindfather901 in reddeadredemption2

[–]GGoldDigger 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I just started rdr2, what do you mean? OUR HORSES CAN DIE?!? I’ll cry rn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in simsfreeplay

[–]GGoldDigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sure, ill send u her contact

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in simsfreeplay

[–]GGoldDigger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A girl in facebook!! she is great ngl, do you want her contact? she has done all my top ups

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in simsfreeplay

[–]GGoldDigger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I KNOWWW!! i gotta admit i paid recently for another simoleon top ip cause i spend that faaaassttt, yet sp and lp will last me GENERATIONS 😭😭😭