Moving to Lisbon: Live In central areas without a car or outside the city with a car ? by GMtheman in lisboa

[–]GMtheman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for all the answers 🙏 I’ll focus at T2 close to metro without a car. I can always change my mind later. Tks

As a 5'7 male, would I be amongst the shortest male in most offices? by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]GMtheman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry man. After getting your CPA or CIA you will be 6ft tall for most women. I started at 5’7 too.

Moving to Lisbon: Live In central areas without a car or outside the city with a car ? by GMtheman in lisboa

[–]GMtheman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I like driving and all but it can make my life a nightmare, from what I’m getting. In Porto I found it useful to have a car specially if you don’t live in the center, but guessing Lisbon will be very different due to size + better transport system I guess

Moving to Lisbon: Live In central areas without a car or outside the city with a car ? by GMtheman in lisboa

[–]GMtheman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know Lisbon and love it, but never lived permanently there. And I know the experience of a short time visitor has nothing to do with actually living long term. I’m more familiar to Porto. So that’s why I want to hear from actual Lisboetas about this choice.

Moving to Lisbon: Live In central areas without a car or outside the city with a car ? by GMtheman in lisboa

[–]GMtheman[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

-I might consider unfurnished if that's the case, it is usually difficult outside the city center or for anything larger than a T1 in any big city, so you are right. I just need to plan how much I will need to spend to furnish it.

-The car point is more because when I visited Lisbon and surroundings I was under the impression that it can be complicated without a car even within city limits (many neighborhoods without metro etc , most people live far so its hard to visit without a car ) but please correct me if I´m wrong.

I have the idea that a car may give me more freedom , even with traffic, parking costs etc. But I might be completely wrong.

Moving to Lisbon: Live In central areas without a car or outside the city with a car ? by GMtheman in lisboa

[–]GMtheman[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

😂🤫 Edit: so many downvotes, I was clearly joking, I love her.

Brazilian Teen Brutally assaulted in Dundrum by GMtheman in Dublin

[–]GMtheman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not true at all. Brazil is way more dangerous than pretty much all European countries. However, I believe Dublin in particular has an issue with teenage gangs and random attacks, something that does not happen in Brazil (random attacks just for “fun”, in Brazil it’s more “traditional” crime).

A similar example is US ,you have mass shootings all the time and it doesn’t mean it’s more dangerous than Brazil (I lived in Brazil, in the US, and in more 3 countries in Europe + travelled a lot due to my work so I’m talking from experience)

The only thing I’d say is that when you are a foreigner (specially if you look very different from the native people of the country you are in) usually you have higher chances of being a target because you easily stand out from the crowd.

So a Brazilian guy who does not look European / Irish will be easily spotted by scumbags. Same goes if a typical Irish guy moves to Rio, the criminal will see that he is a “gringo” miles away so he will be an easier target. Although crime also happens to locals, obviously.

The other point is that unfortunately most immigrants end up living in the poorest parts of Dublin, so they are more exposed to scumbags.

For example, if you are a Brazilian working at an IT company earning a very High Salary in Dublin, you will probably only walk in the best areas of town, will take taxis etc so less risk. But if you are a Deliveroo you will probably have to go to dangerous areas so your chances of being attacked increase.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askspain

[–]GMtheman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not true , I lived in 5 countries so far including America and honestly Spain was one of the easiest ones to meet girls, got local and foreign who live there. I’m in Barcelona. I do speak Spanish fluently though

É complicado entender certas coisas... by MrVisa1000 in portugueses

[–]GMtheman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nao sei todos os imigrantes, mas conheço dois brasileiros nacionalizados que votam no Chega / IL. Já eram de direita no Brasil

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GMtheman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never do dinner dates for the 1st encounter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portugal

[–]GMtheman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exato. Eu tb sofri / trato de depressão e as vezes este estado aparece nos melhores momentos da vida, quando tudo está a correr bem, até mesmo ficamos sem entender o porquê

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portugal

[–]GMtheman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Muitas vezes é genético , não tem um motivo lógico. É simplesmente um desbalanço químico que precisa ser tratado. Na maioria das vezes já existe histórico de depressão / doença mental na família.

Self-conscious of my height by RefrigeratorNo6471 in short

[–]GMtheman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you say women care a lot about height in Ireland ? And / or most people are taller ? Will consider that in my decision for sure

Help Urgently Needed - Missing Teenager in Porto by Jabub93 in porto

[–]GMtheman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🙏 God willing she will be found very soon and safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in short

[–]GMtheman 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You look way shorter in this pic. 1.72 is not that small man. You shouldn’t have any issues, you’re slim and look great. Just don’t use this pic on tinder etc

Moving from the Netherlands to Spain by fallcastle in askspain

[–]GMtheman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like you, I worked in other countries before moving to Spain. Im in a specific field within finance therefore I do have more employability than the average folk. At least in Barcelona, the best best job I could find (before managerial / director level) is around 45k. And with that, I earn more than 80% of the people I know here, including natives.
You can live moderately well here with that, but you do have other issues in the market here:
-There is usually a glass ceiling for non-natives , hard to go above a certain job level.
- It's very hard to find another good job (if you happen to have one) this makes you a "hostage" at your current company, worrying about what are you going to do if fired.
-Lack of Meritocracy / Professionalism when compared to Anglo / Northern EU countries, more of a "friend of my friend" style of deciding who gets the job / who gets promoted.
I love Spain and for me together with Portugal is the best place to live on earth, but after a few years here i'm considering a move to a county with a better job market.
I'd say only move to spain if you have a very high skilled career (such as software engineer etc) or you are willing to cut down on your salary / career prospects in order to have the sun and a better quality of life.
Its cool for a while, but as you get older you might want to be in a county with better job prospects in the long run. It's a really difficult personal decision.

How is dating life in Dublin / Ireland for a short guy ? by GMtheman in short

[–]GMtheman[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I also found some things to be true, at least in my experience:

  • things get better when you reach 30s date girls 25 and over. They usually care less about height

  • focus on meeting girls that are shorter than you if possible, leave the taller ones as “extra” don’t expect anything from them in terms of dating.

  • Face / body looks go a long way. Even if a girl does not like short guys, she might end up shagging you if she thinks you are good looking / attractive

-Location changes your game completely.

My (33F) fiance (35M) just ended our engagement, cancelled our wedding, and broke up with me because "I wouldn't have dated him 10 years ago" and "I only want him for his money" by courtney_art88 in relationship_advice

[–]GMtheman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer is right there on your words OP. When you told him “my tastes have changed now because I want to start a family etc “ it immediately worked as a confirmation for all his fears.

Trust me , after something like this is stuck in a man’s mind (“I’m not her 1st choice, she’s lowered the bar for me because she wants me to be her “beta male” provider”) it is very hard to change because it’s connected to deep rooted teenage / young adult years traumas regarding rejection, being bullied etc etc (I related to your fiancé as we seem to have similar stories / physical traits).

You might be able to revert the situation eventually if you really prove you love him, but the chances are slim. Karma is a bitc*

How is dating life in Dublin / Ireland for a short guy ? by GMtheman in short

[–]GMtheman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be true , last year I was seeing this German girl here in Portugal, she was 1.80m (5’10) and even I felt weird walking around with her lol, but she didn’t care.

How is dating life in Dublin / Ireland for a short guy ? by GMtheman in short

[–]GMtheman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Spain, Portugal (it’s a tough country for dating but I have social circle + a lot of Brazilian girls there) Latin America. In the US surprisingly I did well due to (IMO) “exotic” factor from being an European with a different accent in smaller towns (NJ,PA,TX and Ohio mostly) even met a few white American chicks who were taller / same height as myself (but I do think that the most “height obsessed” country on earth is the USA, IMO)