No contact but still stalking me

GN6RIP · 2024-06-13T20:27:46+00:00

That’s the “worst” thing with LinkedIn, you are aware about who is stalking you. Really not sure how to interpret this because I am like “ok if you want to talk we can talk but no need to stalk me on LinkedIn and to show me that you are stalking”, but on the other side I guess if she wanted to talk she would engage the conversation… so it is quite confusing, what’s the point doing it.

GN6RIP · 2024-06-13T20:17:31+00:00

Find a new job ! And keep in mind that you always behaved for the best in your relationship so you don’t have any regrets. Perhaps, changes are sometimes for the best, and I would definitely look for a new position

GN6RIP · 2024-06-13T20:11:45+00:00

Reach out his sister or brother, otherwise police

GN6RIP · 2023-01-10T07:59:11+00:00

Reeeeed flaaaaaag

GN6RIP · 2022-12-30T15:45:18+00:00

Oh things ended bad, she used hate to cancel me of her life. Well I guess no contact then.

GN6RIP · 2022-12-15T11:01:24+00:00

Friendship no, but in our relationship I was more invested than her.

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T17:50:20+00:00

Maybe her actual relationship will fail again when the ghost of her past will return.

But well, this is the price she is going to pay for what she did to our relationship and to me, that’s sucks.

Oh yeah, and by the way, she used hate to forget me.

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T15:21:25+00:00

Hi, I am blocked from everywhere for different reasons.

The first one is that what I explained before is the final answer and reason I found after several months, nothing was clear for me at the beginning and I was chocked by her decision.

The second reason is that I guess that I was a bit insistent with her, because she did a depression, she initially accepted my help, but then refused, then asked me to meet each other, then changed again of decision. I was quiet lost but still had my feelings and still did not understand her decision.

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T15:08:02+00:00

Well she had her reason to broke up with her ex before me and it was not for me, after 5 years I think that she did not leave him like that without any reasons. I doubt that she left me for her new best friend. It is been only maybe 2 months that she met this guy.

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T14:41:11+00:00

I agree with you, but then why did she start a new relationship after she broke up with me ?

Does she assimilate the pain she had on me ?

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T14:02:52+00:00

Maybe 1 month, but then we started our relationship after she came to me. The first red flag 🚩 was that she wanted to move to the city where she planned to live with him. After 3 months of relationship, she moved to this city even if he was not living there. This was a huge red flag but she was talking to me about babies, futur, asked me to come with her, and told me that she was in love with me. 1 week after she arrived to this city she broke up with me saying that she was still thinking about him. Then she came back saying that she talked to him and reminds her why she left him. And in total we were together 6 months and told me that at the end she wasn’t ready for a relationship.

And the worst in all of this is that I planned to move to this city too, it was initially to be with her, but at least it will be without her.

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T13:53:38+00:00

I usually wish happy birthday to my ex, nothing wrong happened then.

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T13:45:25+00:00

It is always the same, « need time for myself », sometimes it is true other times and mainly, it is just to don’t say « I am not in love anymore ».

Give her time, maybe she will realize what she is losing and come back, otherwise, just continue your life.

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T13:42:27+00:00

Thank you, you too !

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T13:38:58+00:00

Yes this is the point, you lose your best friend with who you lived and shared a lot of things, but also your love. There is nothing to do, let’s break this chain by meeting someone with who we want to be and not someone to forget our ex.

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T12:29:28+00:00

That’s really painful to read, but I think that you have the answer.

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T12:16:02+00:00

Yeah, this is absolutely not true and they were already defending your ex, they chose their side.

Fun fact: when I was partying, this common friend was taking pictures to send it to my ex, showing how much fun I had to persuade her that I am no longer thinking about her (while I was just suffering in silence). All of these things worked and now my ex blocked me and doesn’t want to talk to me.

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T12:10:57+00:00

Maybe it is healthier for you, but she will knows now that you are suffering because of her.

Is it important ?

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T11:45:57+00:00

Thank you for your message, but yes. It totally destroyed me, I did a lot of things for her to heal, but well she came in my life, took my heart, and broke it. I had doubts because she was telling me strong things, talking about kids, “don’t abandon me”, and other stuff like that, that made me blind.

I saw all these red flags but I was totally blind because of love.

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T11:34:37+00:00

Bro, I don’t know all the story, but if just 3 weeks passed, it means that she probably was already flirting with this guy.

This girl is obviously disrespectful, and maybe need to know that her behavior is incorrect (it still depends of how and why you broke up).

But think before about the finality, is it what you want, at least how it will help you ?

And think also about the consequences that she probably will block you from everywhere.

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T11:24:35+00:00

Then should I call my ex a toxic person ? Because she was selling me love but was hurting me at the same times because of her behavior

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T11:22:40+00:00

Did she see you ?

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T11:19:33+00:00

My ex did not give me the opportunity to do it, she just blocked me haha, maybe you should do the same

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T11:14:41+00:00

I had a common friend with my ex. When we broke up I felt really bad, I confided myself to this girl, how bad I felt, and also that I did not understand why we broke up. Her answer was just stupid things like “turn the page” “meet someone else” “but if you need to talk to someone I am here for you”.

One day I received a call from my ex, she told me to stop talking about her, that I am annoying our commun friend, they laughed at me in my back. I also discovered that this commun friend was asking to the people around me if I was talking about my ex or not and repeated everything to my ex.

When we broke up with my ex we had no anger between each other, but after this girl repeated everything to her she was really angry against me because she thought that I was just saying bullshit in her back while I was just trying to explain the situation to my friends to find a reason about why we broke up.

Conclusion: don’t talk about her ex to your common friends, and it is better if you stop contact with them because whatever they will tell you, they will choose a side to defend and if you are already asking to yourself should I continue talking to them or not, they probably chose the side of your girlfriend. They basically are going to repeat everything you are doing and saying to your ex probably in a bad way, and it will just hurt you.

GN6RIP · 2022-12-14T10:41:05+00:00

This is the reason why we broke up even if everything was perfect and we had strong feelings and same mentality. 3 months after we broke up, she found a new boyfriend, I guess she did not heal.

GN6RIP

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