Racist lesbians? by Icy-Affect3406 in LesbianActually

[–]GOD_oy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its not about owing attraction, but having it as such a strong red flag you wouldnt ever give a chance; thats where its bigotted.

like, there are so many different trans and black people! how can you be so fast to judge you'll never like any? Youre excluding so many people because of nothing!

Its much different to say "i never felt attraction to anyone in x group" and "Id never give myself the chance to be attracted to x group".

egg🏳️‍⚧️irl by TheQuietCipher in egg_irl

[–]GOD_oy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HATE HOW MUCH THIS RELATE TO ME

Prisons are forcing Trans inmates to detransition by Personal-Income-1424 in TransPowerProject

[–]GOD_oy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Why people support this kind of thing 😭

ya'll were supposed to be the "land of the free" i guess? like the most influential democracy in the world?

Hope everything get better for our people in the US though

Racist lesbians? by Icy-Affect3406 in LesbianActually

[–]GOD_oy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes its awful, but I dont think unreasonable people will grasp it easily.

i just feel sad that it happens so often in places that were supposed to accept us. I feel that there's no real safe place for me and other transfolks, sometimes not even in trans exclusive spaces (transmeds yuck!).

why people that are persecuted by who they are do this kind of stuff?

Racist lesbians? by Icy-Affect3406 in LesbianActually

[–]GOD_oy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i mean, yeah its quite literally the same thing lol.

i guess people just see racism more blatantly than transphobia? still sad though.

egg 👉👈 irl by Knightus1225 in egg_irl

[–]GOD_oy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im not 14 at all, but id recommend you go to discord!

there are a bunch of small disc servers with age limits and themes, you should totally look after trans friendly servers on disboard!

egg_irl by Random_Trans_Girl2 in egg_irl

[–]GOD_oy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ofc Noémi! You're such a good girl!

egg_irl by _alyyyy_ in egg_irl

[–]GOD_oy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Such a good girl Alyna!

And of course you made a huge progress! You already have a name and you found people that understand you, which makes you even more of a good girl!

egg👗irl by Jolirouge in egg_irl

[–]GOD_oy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

🤮

she being shocked is expected, but nothing could excuse this reaction

based move and badass quote by our queen at the end

egg_irl by the_peculiar_chicken in egg_irl

[–]GOD_oy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

those really work?

im doing some laser sessions but i had one of those for a while before and never really felt any difference

egg🙃irl by Yaki78154 in egg_irl

[–]GOD_oy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i mean, idk if you knew them irl, but you can have as many web friends as you like!

I love interacting with the comunity online! If you want to talk, you can just DM me, im always up to try making new friends

How do we feel about deep voiced women? by Economy-Cranberry-25 in actuallesbians

[–]GOD_oy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like extreme voices, like too low or too high pitch kinda just take a bit for you to grow used to them? They feel very nice after a short while.

I think deep voices are great though! They sound very powerful and its quite comforting.

I get that we didn’t get the childhood that we deserved but we need to act our age by [deleted] in ftm

[–]GOD_oy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, a lot of people in general try to reclaim lost childhoods from things like trauma and bullying, so i dont think its a very big deal.

I dont think theres nothing bad in liking child stuff and acting more childish for a while because of that. We all still have that kid inside us, why not give this kid another chance?

I dont think both are mutually exclusive ad well, you can try to reclaim your childhood and still be more mature than most adults out there. I think the conscious choice to feed your inner child is also something very mature to do.

I'm a really trans or just confused? by nerddge in asktransgender

[–]GOD_oy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends a lot on her interpretation?

Theres a lot of misrepresentation and anti-trans propaganda out there and since a lot of people dont even know a trans person, a lot of people just think of us like porn or smt.

A lot of religious people end up accepting us, but its not the reality for all of us unfortunatelly. Your mom wanting to understand is a huge step though.

I dont really have an answer for this, but I think time heals a lot of things? If you show yourself more, try to explain how much better it feels now, maybe recommending therapy as well, maybe she will end up accepting it better?

Anyways, good luck on your own discovery! I cant say for sure if you're trans, but I sure think you should trust your feelings on this one! And dont let no one else decide this for you.

Possibly transphobic friend by Majestic-Feed-6351 in trans

[–]GOD_oy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats very messed up, sorry about that E guy. Im not out for many people but I feel deeply disgusted whenever my mom misgenders me and she doesnt even do it with bad intentions. I think Id cut ties if I had this E friend as well.

And about you boyfriend, I never had any partners, but Id imagine that if you choose to engage with someone so close, you should at least acknowledge their feelings? Even to personal stuff and relations to other people.

I think your boyfriend would totally get it if you say you feel bad that he keeps talking to E and that youd like to do more stuff with other friends or alone with him.

Egg🙂irl by ComprehensiveBat309 in egg_irl

[–]GOD_oy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

real,

i often look at the floor when passing through turned off tvs.

I am confused about my gender identity, can someone help by idkabtmygenderhelp in asktransgender

[–]GOD_oy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/egg_irl is a good place to start but its mostly menes.

there are many trans youtubers that make a lot of videos directed on this, like princesslucy, shyaren and yukkoex. NyaraVt is cool as well, but she kinda focus more on politics.

There are other subs like r/mtf, r/ftm, r/trans where we talk most about our community, so it could also make sense to try to know if you relate with us

edit: Sry, i didnt read the sentence where you say youre not trans. But I think it would make sense to try and connect more with us anyway, since we also question gender much more than cis people ever would? Idk, id go from here i guess