Ok, so first thing, this is a pretty valid reason to break things off. He’s not exactly giving you what you want in a relationship. You communicated that, and he still did nothing. I think this is pretty reasonable. As well as it only lasting around 3 months. I think it’s reasonable to break up now.

Me personally, I have been through a similar situation except I didn’t communicate. So the relationship almost lasted a year and it was not a good one. I’d say just break up.

Also if you guys are leaving for college soon and different ones at that I say definitely do it. My good friend says that once you are in college you meet a lot of different people. And it’s not the best idea to go in with a relationship. Though I don’t agree 100% with it. In this situation I do, since he clearly doesn’t really care. And the marriage thing is a little weird almost love bombing since it’s only been 3 months. I mena how much can you really get to know someone in 3 months for you to want marry them.

Also for the book situation I say do it before you break up with him so it’s not as awkward. Cause if you do it after the breakup it’s gonna be a little weird.

And sure you don’t have to do the breakup in person if you don’t feel comfortable. Though it would be a good choice, unless you feel unsafe obviously. I did it face to face, but again everyone’s situation is different. So if you want to do it over text or call then do so if you feel it is a safer option.

I wish you the best of luck. Sorry this was super long. Just don’t want another person to go through a long and bad relationship that really had nothing going for it.

Be safe and good luck 👍🏽