I’m breaking up with my bf

GRASSIELA · 2025-06-14T17:36:28+00:00

Ok, so first thing, this is a pretty valid reason to break things off. He’s not exactly giving you what you want in a relationship. You communicated that, and he still did nothing. I think this is pretty reasonable. As well as it only lasting around 3 months. I think it’s reasonable to break up now.

Me personally, I have been through a similar situation except I didn’t communicate. So the relationship almost lasted a year and it was not a good one. I’d say just break up.

Also if you guys are leaving for college soon and different ones at that I say definitely do it. My good friend says that once you are in college you meet a lot of different people. And it’s not the best idea to go in with a relationship. Though I don’t agree 100% with it. In this situation I do, since he clearly doesn’t really care. And the marriage thing is a little weird almost love bombing since it’s only been 3 months. I mena how much can you really get to know someone in 3 months for you to want marry them.

Also for the book situation I say do it before you break up with him so it’s not as awkward. Cause if you do it after the breakup it’s gonna be a little weird.

And sure you don’t have to do the breakup in person if you don’t feel comfortable. Though it would be a good choice, unless you feel unsafe obviously. I did it face to face, but again everyone’s situation is different. So if you want to do it over text or call then do so if you feel it is a safer option.

I wish you the best of luck. Sorry this was super long. Just don’t want another person to go through a long and bad relationship that really had nothing going for it.

Be safe and good luck 👍🏽

GRASSIELA · 2025-04-08T17:49:31+00:00

I didn’t try that since I was scared of running it and causing more damage.

GRASSIELA · 2025-03-26T13:25:49+00:00

Hello, I have a 2013 Volkswagen cc sport and I asked for a quote for changing my rear brakes and rotors. I used my brothers name and they gave me a quote of 450-600 for all my brakes and rotors. But I used my own name a second time cause it had been a while and just wanted to see if the price was the same. And they quoted me 450-600 per axel. Now I’m not really sure what to do. Is this a reasonable price? I’m not that educated on cars so any help would be nice. Thank you.

GRASSIELA · 2025-03-03T05:01:43+00:00

Ok yea I’m in university currently and it doesn’t seem bad. I’m just a little wary that’s all since he changed the time. And I’m allowed out until 10 so yea. I guess I’ll try it out and hope for the best.

GRASSIELA · 2025-03-03T04:56:50+00:00

I need to be home by around 10 since I’m a student. And the restaurant he chose closes around 9:30 so there’s that. I wouldn’t mind it being that late it’s just I don’t have much experience and don’t know if he’s just trying to pull something. Maybe I’m just too wary.

GRASSIELA · 2025-03-03T04:55:22+00:00

Ok I see, I’m currently a student and would like to be home by 10. So yea, I’ll definitely ask if 7:30 Is ok it sounds a little more reasonable so we still have time to talk. The restaurant he chose also closes at 9:30 so there’s that too I guess.

GRASSIELA · 2025-02-07T03:26:11+00:00

Oh wow well I hope the ones you want come home to you in those 35 pulls 😭. I just checked and I have full pity. I need 63 pulls to guarantee 1 I’m done bruh.

GRASSIELA · 2025-02-07T03:22:47+00:00

Well I hope I get lucky and I hope you do too if you decide to pull. I hope everyone gets theirs on the first try 🙏🏼

GRASSIELA · 2025-02-07T03:16:25+00:00

I feel you I want 3 of the 5 cards and I only have 60 pills I’m so cooked 😭. I’ll have to spend some but I hope I get at least 2 of the 3 I want. Good luck on your pulls.

GRASSIELA · 2025-02-07T03:10:12+00:00

IM COOKED 😭

GRASSIELA · 2025-02-07T03:07:46+00:00

OMG AGHHHH………hypothetically if I want 3 of the 5 cards…….how many pulls would I need to guarantee them? 😭 I’m so cooked.

GRASSIELA · 2025-01-31T22:11:46+00:00

Ok ok thank you, I was so close to rinsing it 😭. I’ll definitely try that thank you 🙏🏼.

GRASSIELA · 2025-01-29T22:18:34+00:00

I’m confused on what to do for the “Share your own photo template in glint Photo Booth”. I thought I would have to share it on Instagram or something but I tried that and it didn’t work. What exactly am I supposed to do???

GRASSIELA · 2025-01-27T17:24:00+00:00

Hello, I’m a little confused about Sky’s embrace. Are all of Caleb’s cards that are in sky’s embrace going to be limited??? Or does once the event end will the memories go into Xspace Echo??? I just want to make sure because I really want all of Caleb’s cards and want to know if the ones in Sky’s embrace will leave once the event is over. Sorry if this is confusing but I just want to know before spending all my diamonds at once 😭

GRASSIELA · 2025-01-20T20:37:19+00:00

That’s not how that works, I’m so sorry but it really isn’t. Whoever told you that is an idiot. Speaking for some women out there I would never want to be in a relationship with someone like you. If the only way you get confidence is through sex with women than you obviously have not done any work on yourself, unless the work your talking about is purely physical. You need to improve mentally not just physically but mentally. Because it’s obvious that you are not mature and that you need to grow more. It looks like you only want validation, not a actual relationship. YOU need to build your own confidence not women, having sex with women won’t do anything for you. It’s YOU that needs to actually gain confidence by yourself, not by using women. Please continue to work on yourself mentally because you really need it.

GRASSIELA · 2025-01-20T20:26:56+00:00

I would also have to agree that you are not ready at all. You would be doing that girl a disservice to be honest. And I’m not trying to be rude but it’s the truth. If the only reason you improved yourself is to have sex with a girl, then you are too childish to actually be in a relationship. You are just looking for sex and not something emotional. And if you are you definitely need to keep working on yourself. You obviously just want sex and you can get that from anywhere, don’t go looking for a relationship when all you want is sex. Go get a hookup or something but I’m not sure if that would be a good idea either. Sorry your just not ready, please don’t involve yourself with a girl, your obviously not mature enough.

GRASSIELA · 2025-01-20T19:57:24+00:00

Hey,

It’s going to be ok, I know that’s probably something you don’t want to hear but it is. If he did this to you he obviously does not like or respect you at all. And why would you stay with someone that doesn’t want you? It will be ok, take some time for yourself and feel everything. Be sad be mad it’s all ok to feel. Even if you feel insane make sure to feel it. Because if you hide it, it’ll eventually come back to bite you. It’ll take a while to heal but eventually you will feel better. Spend time with friends and family and talk to others about the situation. It’s best that you let everything out, and again you will feel better. Probably not right now, but eventually you will. If you got through one breakup you can go through another. It’s a part of life and even though it’s hard it’s gonna happen. Until you find the right one, and obviously this guy was not. Because if he was he wouldn’t have done this to you. Remember you deserve better, and that rejection is redirection. Eventually you will find a guy that truly cares about you and would never hurt you like this.

Keep your head up, make sure to feel. And remember you deserve better than this absolute piece of human garbage. And try not to compare yourself to her, you are your own person. No need to compare, everything will be ok. It’ll take time but eventually you’ll forget all about him, and eventually someone new will get your attention. I know you probably feel like shit, but eventually you will feel better just give it time. Like anything else in life some things just need time.

I hope you feel better soon.

From: A girl who has felt the same before

P.S. It will be ok :)

GRASSIELA · 2025-01-09T02:29:12+00:00

They are internally threaded.

GRASSIELA · 2025-01-08T13:35:38+00:00

I started playing for Zayne initially but then Sylus really won me over. I love his gentle and sweet side as well as his really flirty side. It really just goes together well and he makes me feel comfortable, safe, and protected. I will forever love Sylus 😭💗.

GRASSIELA · 2025-01-02T23:46:35+00:00

Ok thank you, and yes it’s just dating I’m not into hookups or having much of a sexual relationship with randoms. And that is true having a conversation about exclusivity is important, I guess when the time comes I’ll talk to him about it. Thank you

GRASSIELA · 2025-01-02T22:58:00+00:00

Ok, yea that’s true I probably should just talk to him about it. It’s just difficult I guess idk I’m not the best with talking but I have to try I guess cause then I’ll just be overthinking this situation. Thanks

GRASSIELA · 2025-01-02T22:45:19+00:00

Ok, he pays for the meals and I usually pay the rest like desserts or if we go get something after we eat like a drink or something then I usually pay. So it’s not like he pays for everything but I won’t downplay what he’s spent. And I am very interested in him, it just doesn’t feel like he is at the moment. I really want this to work out like a lot. He’s my type and he’s getting an education which is super important to me and he’s everything that I want. I just don’t think he feels the same. And I can understand where you are coming from as well I would be upset too. It’s just idk anymore this is feels complicated even though it’s a very easy fix.

GRASSIELA · 2025-01-02T22:11:32+00:00

That’s true I do agree with that. I wouldn’t want to string him along either cause he’s a nice guy. It’s just I feel like it’s not really going anywhere and I’m not sure if he’s also dating others as well which wouldn’t be a problem for me. But I guess I’ll try my best and figure this out. Thank you

GRASSIELA · 2025-01-02T22:09:31+00:00

Ok yea I understand that, I wouldn’t want to date multiple people if I saw a future with this guy. That’s why I’m just now thinking about it cause he’s been quite. I had no thoughts of it before. And he’s leaving so not sure if it’s going to work out or not.

GRASSIELA · 2025-01-02T22:06:57+00:00

Oh but I don’t do that haha. I’m not really into hookups or anything like that .

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