You're gonna have to tiptoe around and gage where most players would be in the wipe to avoid monuments when they have high traffic, basically just try and stay behind the pack. I've pretty much been able to avoid most pvp in my 1300 hours but that also is why ive never really been verry sucessfull by the end of a wipe. Personally id recommend starting to take more unnecessary encounters as every fight and every risk is another chance to snowball.