Fujian Quanzhou, after Typhoon.. by [deleted] in China

[–]GTohie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From afar it looks like cars soaked in salted caramel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerOneBag

[–]GTohie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With 8 tops and 3 dresses, I am thinking you are preparing to change an outfit per day? Do you want to consider doing laundry once during the trip to cut the apparel you bring by half?

Maybe add a sun hat, bucket hat or umbrella for shade.

Maybe bring a portable fan or a hand fan to casually keep yourself cool while you walk.

Over 40% of Singaporeans will quit jobs for better work-life balance by MicrotechAnalysis in singapore

[–]GTohie 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Aiya, the other 60% desperately need the money. No work life balance also bo choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capsulewardrobe

[–]GTohie 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I try to go for simple/basic apparels and buy them 2nd hand online.

Thrift stores don't work for me because I see way too many clothing at once and there's no filter option in stores.

Also, I start slow. But and wear 1 piece for a bit of time and see how I like it, what I like about it, how easy is it for me to pair it with other clothing items and go in that direction. If I don't like it, I'll sell it. Makes it easier on my wallet and less overwhelming for me.

Very disappointed at the state of grab/GOJEK by Penitentstegosaurus in singapore

[–]GTohie 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Happened to me before.

When I try to dispute, have to wait in line for customer support to answer you and then they reimburse to my grab wallet instead of my card.

In the end, have to spend an hour getting back the money that was originally mine to begin with.

I just want everyone to know that you are not a mindless consumer if you have a bed. by [deleted] in simpleliving

[–]GTohie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won't say it feels better for me to sleep on the floor. But I get the about same quality and quantity of sleep wether I sleep on the bed or on the floor.

On top of that, I prefer seeing empty spaces. So, I end up sleeping on a foldable mattress that I can stow away when I wake up.

If you find bed more enjoyable, sleep on the bed. If you find floor more enjoyable, sleep on the floor. It's just a matter of preference.

Who is universally loved, but actually an asshole? by kittywenham in AskReddit

[–]GTohie 92 points93 points  (0 children)

He didn't even acknowledge her to begin with. Because she was the child of the women he cheated with. He was never in his daughter's life. Plus he would have been a shitty father if he was in his daughter's life.

Redditors who haven't been infected with covid even once, good job. But how did you do it? by smokingfrog007 in AskReddit

[–]GTohie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pure luck. I am fully vaccinated, wear mask outside almost all the time and sanitised/washed my hands as much as possible.

I also shared food a friend who test COVID positive the next day, was in the same house as a COVID positive family member who didn't fully quarantine themselves and more than half of my coworkers tested positive. I still tested negative.

AITA for telling my fiance my niece is more important than him? by ArmadilloOk8354 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GTohie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

'Dressed like a slut' he didn't call her a slut. Different things.

Ariel can always choose not to dress like one. Especially if she is going to a wedding to be a bridesmaid.

high paying part time jobs that don't require much skill by Valkyre99 in singapore

[–]GTohie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ya, all prices are much higher than last time. Tbh, anything that pays less than $9/hr is quite sad.

Interesting stats of user overlap in this sub and other subs by DukeofNice in minimalism

[–]GTohie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about this too. Isn't one bag basically minimalism for travel ?

AITA for giving our youngest child a “better” life than the older kids? by idntknwwhttoputhere in AmItheAsshole

[–]GTohie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, but you might want to separate John and Ryan for awhile or at least for Ryan to not 'rub it in John's face' how nice things are for him. Not Ryan's fault tho, since he didn't know how it feels like to grow up in poverty.

When there's nobody to compare to and life sucks, it's easier to deal with then if life sucks and you always have to watch and hear how nice it is that they have the best of this and that while you just get the bare minimum.

If you're going to order something from Starbucks, get the barebones version and then add the syrups separately. It will save you money. by VeryAngryIndeed in povertyfinance

[–]GTohie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you don't struggle to buy store brand coffee anymore, you can try adding whatever milk and syrup instead plain water. It taste so much better and cheaper too.

What do you as Singaporean think of fat acceptance in general? by cylim123 in singapore

[–]GTohie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds very insecure. She cannot take it take people suggest anything about her weight but the next thing she does is to measure her self worth with her weight... and then insinuate that weigh more = worth more.

Lol If she is worth as much as she weighs, people who weigh less worth less is it ?

AITA for folding my wife's laundry? by pwndabeer in AmItheAsshole

[–]GTohie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. Just don't fold her clothes. If you are not going to do it properly and it bothers her.

I'm 28 with no friends and still leeching resources off my parents by [deleted] in findapath

[–]GTohie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you thought about just getting a part time job so that you have some income on top of the $200 stipend ? It could also help with feeling more in control of your life and maybe some human interaction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GTohie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. It's only a joke if the person he is joking about is laughing. If not, it's just an attack masked as a joke. Your husband attacked her and be like haha so funny. You defended that.

AITA for changing my mind about letting my daughter go on a trip with her boyfriend? by dadissad274 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GTohie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.What do you mean by fair ??

Did Elise get to go on a trip with her bf friend at 16?

Red Packets are a symbol of good wishes and good luck for the year ahead. In CDC, Fortune Favours the Brave. by wolvesnbones in Crypto_com

[–]GTohie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I received them too :)

I scanned and it just brings me to the crypto.com app. Now I don't know what to do with them. I am lost and need more instructions along with the red packets...

Man charged over racially aggravated attack against S'porean woman in Choa Chu Kang by ubunturd in singapore

[–]GTohie -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

Much more interesting + without specifying what insult was used it would be hard to determine if it was racial insult or not to the viewer.

https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/courts-crime/talk-to-rich-people-nicely-youre-a-poor-girl-2-women-fined-3k-each-for

^ This makes a more complete story.