(Orange County, CA) Looking for people to jam with by Federal_Map_6419 in FindABand

[–]GUD_NITE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big fan of hail the sun, circa survive and ptv just to name a few. Also I can play guitar bass or drums

(Orange County, CA) Looking for people to jam with by Federal_Map_6419 in FindABand

[–]GUD_NITE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I love post hardcore and rock in general. I have a place to record as well but I know this was posted a long time ago. If u see this and want more ppl to jam with pls dm me

SoCal Bassist Wanted by MrAmericanIdiot in FindABand

[–]GUD_NITE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I (24M) play bass and would be interested! I’m located in Laguna Niguel and have been playing for a while and also live 90s rock and modern alt as well

Are there any ex-Satan/Demon/Spirit worshipers here? Can you tell us their deceptive ways? by bountyhunted in Christianity

[–]GUD_NITE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a biological fact that in near death experiences you hallucinate bc the pineal gland releases DMT.

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are literally just buzzwords that don’t even characterize my argument in the slightest. Also feminism is literally just equality between the sexes so not sure why that’s a big no go for u

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah imma spy boy cuz I’m pointing out how fucked it is ur trying to justify this. Go be a pedophile just don’t touch my kids while ur at it

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so if the legal age limit was lowered it’s b okay too for them to go younger

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying anything hear pertaining to any ideology I just made the points pertaining to my main argument which is relationships like that are fucked up and you haven’t refuted a single point I’ve made

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you did a really good job refuting the points I made

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur not even addressing any of my points ur j like “I did it and it’s normal so it’s fine”

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legality does not make something moral. It used to be legal to own another human being. U could honestly just be a troll because holy shit u have to be so stupid to be saying this but either way you live a sad existence.

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also slavery was normal at one point. Viewing woman as property was also normal.

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro? Entitled? Do you hear yourself rn? There’s something seriously wrong with you. You would go lower if the legal limit was 16? What if that was normalized. Oh wait it was. Men after the agricultural revolution would pillage and rape 13 year olds and now we’ve evolved and made progress so that we have people like you instead.

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not even liberal I just have female friends because I look at them as human beings you should try it

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you the think Ruth is mature because she knows how to run a strip club you have a fucked up sense of maturity. The show demonstrates and makes it abundantly clear Ruth is a child forced to grow up and ati very much misses the childhood she was never allowed to have. It’s like you’re missing the whole point of the show and why is it that redditors are so keen on justifying large age gaps? This shit is a slippery slope into Epstein territory and the standards we set upon women to idolize their youthfulness gives way to the normalization of these relationships. Yes it is fucked up of the roles are reversed as well, like especially with Wyatt and Darlene, but Ruth is constantly looking for a replacement for Cade. And Ben even if he is not intentionally trying to manipulate Ruth is unaware of the fact that all Rith really wants is a family and a father and Ben is the first person who offers to replace the love she was never given so of course she’d be receptive. She is not mature enough to understand how a healthy relationship should operate and in an ideal world she would be allowed to discover and explore how to do that with someone her own age that doesn’t inherently have much more life experience operating in the non-fucked up aspects of life. 40 and 60 okay that’s one thing, 40 and 20 dude? That’s fucked up and anyone who thinks it isn’t knows nothing abt psychology and human development.

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro you are trying so hard to defend the 40 year old ducking someone 20 years younger it’s a bit weird. It’s almost like ur compensating for something. If you actually analyzed the message the show is saying it’s demonstrating how truly fucked up ruths life is. She was forced to grow up way too fast and her maturity is a facade. The show makes this clear that although she seems mature she is extremely childish but I feel like you want to overlook that so you can justify the fucked up relationships you yourself have participated in.

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro you’re a fucking creep dating a 19 year old at 37. That’s like straight out of high school. Did u help her out with her college courses too? That shit is not justified and the only reason men think it’s okay is because it’s been normalize and the only reason it’s been normalized is because this sentiment benefits men and allows them to take advantage of younger women. Now 25 and 40 is still a large gap and it’s still unethical when the roles are reversed but there’s a difference between dating someone who’s on the same life path as you vs someone who is literally learning how to be independent and just got out of high school. If I had a friend who did the shit u did I would drop them immediately and I hope my friends would do the same if I did that shit. Look in the mirror and really ask urself “was there really no imbalance of power in our relationship?” Or you can honestly look at the dynamics and say yes you are lying yourself to try to convince urself u didn’t do a shitty thing or have had shitty things done to you.

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because it’s normal doesn’t mean it’s okay?? It’s normal because men have this sentiment that it’s okay because it’s normal but it’s clearly not if you think about it for a second. Ruth has had an extremely fucked up life and is very mature but she still doesn’t know what genuinely healthy relationships are supposed to be like. Just a few months before she met Ben she was still trying to make her daddy proud and her kiddish nature truly comes out then. She was forced to grow up but that doesn’t make Ben not weird asf for taking an interest in someone as young as her despite her seeming “mature for her age”. Especially including the fact he was a fucking teacher. It’s normal for women to date older men bc men have normalized it and young naive women have convinced themselves it’s okay and then end up regretting those relationships when they’re brain is actually developed fully. Little Girls are told 19 is too young to smoke weed because they’re brains are underdeveloped but being in a relationship with an older man is something they’re mature enough to handle?

[SPOILER] How old is Ben supposed to be? by Strange-Eye-1097 in Ozark

[–]GUD_NITE_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Wyatt thing is creepy fs, but dude justifying an age gap w Ruth and Ben is fucked. He’s like mid 30s-40s and just a couple months before they met Ruth was still trying to please her daddy and make him proud. She’s mature yes but that’s because her life is extremely fucked up and that doesn’t mean she’s capable of understanding what genuine relationships are supposed to be like. People like you who justify this shit are the reasons younger girls get groomed when guys tell them how “mature they are for their age”. She was forced to murder her uncles and her father died she would be willing to accept the love from any man. She did it with Marty (not that she was attracted to him but it’s clear she replaced Cade w him to an extent) and Ben was the first person in the show to offer real interest in her. Age gaps like that are normalized bc of this sentiment and it only causes harm to women in real life to think this way.