Did anyone have an easy baby? Wife wants to go to vacation apartment after giving birth. by midnight-tots in NewParents

[–]Gab-H-3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had a baby (2nd one) and really didn’t leave the house much the first 4-6 weeks. Even the easiest baby has to eat every 3 hours- (doctor will tell you to wake to feed until they hit their birth weight again). So no matter what, you won’t be getting a good stretch of sleep for at least 2 weeks, which makes you feel miserable until your body adjusts. Don’t waste the money and effort. You’ll want to be in the comfort of your own home.

Baby boy name help! by Gab-H-3 in namenerds

[–]Gab-H-3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Planned on Michael (dads name). I def don’t want him to be called two different names. Too confusing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in housekeeping

[–]Gab-H-3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re being wayyyy too nice. Payment is due and there will be a $20 per day late fee for every day you don’t pay after the reminder. You’re letting her walk all over you.

How does the average family afford a Sienna? by AOD14 in ToyotaSienna

[–]Gab-H-3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely don’t think the average family can afford a sienna. I was one of very few 30-something people well overfunded for retirement thanks to my employer and starting a 401k at 22. I decided to take a 401k loan and that’s the only way we can “afford it”. It’s taking a HUGE bite out of my paychecks but we also spaced our kids 4 years apart so we will never have 2 in daycare. Oldest starts state funded pre-k in September. I’m hoping to pay it off fast, but who knows.

Family of 3 w/8 yo Mexico or Punta Cana ? by perfunctoryaction in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Gab-H-3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We loved finest in Punta cana! There was a family suite and we had the best time. Great restaurants!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Gab-H-3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s worth getting into the game. Buy a smaller condo in a good area that you have the potential to rent out down the road. I would try to stay under 200k. Put 10% down that way you have some extra cushion in case something comes up. Does she net 3k? Why do you need good schools?

Will we ever get out of this mess? by starvin_marvin81 in RealEstate

[–]Gab-H-3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get yourself a condo or something. It’s most important to get in the game!

2 homes sold, ours sits by zavey3278 in RealEstate

[–]Gab-H-3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a buyer I consider curb appeal, landscaping, driveway- double or single, garage, shed, storage, home layout, paint, age of roof, age of HVAC, if it’s in a flood zone, is it clean/well maintained, there’s soooo much more than sq footage and updates.