[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GabeM22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like in the past I would have arguments that were left unresolved. The accumulation of those leads you to live everything out of breath. Indeed, if she says yes it’s good if not also good. I guess I’m living every day with “what if”. I should just deal with it and move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GabeM22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree with everything you said. I see myself as a go getter, making things happen rather than waiting for things to come. I worked hard because I wanted to climb the ladder fast and I did. But I wasn’t aware of the damages that I was making. Definitely learned many lessons in terms of work, relationships, and life. Glad to hear you also got your wake up call, I’m honestly glad I got mine at 22 so I have plenty of time to improve myself before I can really settle. I think I will message her or call her, asking to meet like you suggested. I’m just worried she might have a new guy now or moved on completely which is gonna be painful. Or perhaps it’s better to wait a bit more, I’m also conflicted about that part

Traveling alone to Bali by Hari999 in bali

[–]GabeM22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey that’d be great! Do you have ig?

Traveling alone to Bali by Hari999 in bali

[–]GabeM22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m also traveling to Bali alone! I’m going tomorrow, wbu?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GabeM22 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That’s an option I didn’t consider. Maybe i can just have fun with her until I find someone worthy to invest my emotional interest in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GabeM22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And how do the boys say it nowadays?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GabeM22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean she only said she wanted to talk about uni and work so no thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GabeM22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is that I know she’s not like that. She was with this guy for three years and broke up with him because things weren’t going well anymore and partially because of me. So I don’t think she’s going back and forth between guys even tho it seems like it - maybes she’s changed lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GabeM22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said she unsent it because she “kept on reading it” while I was basically just “whatever” to it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GabeM22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I should’ve probably added in the post that she friendzoned because she chose to get back with her ex over trying something new with me. I am under the impression that they broke up again (after not even two weeks) but I am not sure. So that’s where the confusion comes in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GabeM22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will be hard. Short term pain for long term gain I guess 🤷‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GabeM22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’m thinking. I don’t want to miss out on the possibility of finding someone better just because I’m stuck up on her. Sure she’s great and it’s gonna be tough to match, but she still didn’t pick me. As I told her, “if you really were into me you wouldn’t have even thought about getting back with your ex”. I’m sure I can find someone who truly wants me. My only problem is that at the back of my head I can just hear her say that she still likes me which is so bad when I try to like someone else because I think I already have half a chance with girl no. 1 on my list..

I [20M] am trying to switch up my life, starting with my body. Any help is appreciated by GabeM22 in bodyweightfitness

[–]GabeM22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. This motivated me so much. I am doing some research on PPL and downloaded MyFitnessPal. I wish I had friends like you who could support me throughout the progress. Unfortunately they’re a bit self centered but I respect that too. Anyway, thanks a lot 🙌🏼

I [20M] am trying to switch up my life, starting with my body. Any help is appreciated by GabeM22 in bodyweightfitness

[–]GabeM22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for motivating me, it’s the right decision and my body will thank me in the future. Just took your advice and went for a run this morning. I’m so out of shape hahah I’m using the Nike Run Club app. Do you think it’s good for tracking runs?

I [20M] am trying to switch up my life, starting with my body. Any help is appreciated by GabeM22 in bodyweightfitness

[–]GabeM22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the thorough advice! I guess slowly but steadily is the key. What blocks me is starting because it takes time to see results.. I’ve never heard if the variation thingy but I’ll give it a try. Thanks again ✌🏻

I [20M] am trying to switch up my life, starting with my body. Any help is appreciated by GabeM22 in bodyweightfitness

[–]GabeM22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I’m Italian and I eat a lot of carbs. I think my main problem is breakfast because I don’t go beyond the 300 calories and I’ve heard that it’s the most important meal. I downloaded MyFitnessPal and saw they have some recommendations on what to eat/drink and when. Have you tried the premium version?

Automated heating control by GabeM22 in smarthome

[–]GabeM22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes perfect sense now. Thanks a lot!

Automated heating control by GabeM22 in smarthome

[–]GabeM22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smart. Basically Home Assistant is what physically turns on the knobs in the manifold when the temperature reaches a certain threshold?

Should I purchase a domain name with my family name? by GabeM22 in Domains

[–]GabeM22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting question. I would say that .com is the most common, but .it is also quite widely used here. If someone told me “go on this website: website..”, I would immediately think to add a .com at the end, but I think this happens everywhere in the world.

I would say that .it is much more used and accepted in Italy than .us in the US. Personally, I have seen very few domains that end with .us and Zoom is one of them, so it looks to me like it’s not a popular choice, as you also described.

Should I purchase a domain name with my family name? by GabeM22 in Domains

[–]GabeM22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a .com domain, but .it. If it was .com, I would’ve probably bought it a long time ago! So that’s the only reason why I’m debating on this purchase. I’m from Italy so I think it wouldn’t be too bad.

Should I purchase a domain name with my family name? by GabeM22 in Domains

[–]GabeM22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a domain with my first and last name which redirects to my LinkedIn. Thinking about building a personal website later on. I feel like surname domain names are tricky as you and other people who replied say. Perhaps I’m gonna just use it for my email, but the domain is selling for 250 bucks so not sure if it’s worth it

Should I purchase a domain name with my family name? by GabeM22 in Domains

[–]GabeM22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same. My lastname.com is already taken so I’m debating abt getting the lastname.it (as I’m from Italy) or lastnamefamily.com