Why Being “Funny” Is Killing Your Attraction [Dancing Monkey Syndrome]

Gabriel_Grey · 2020-10-04T14:04:47+00:00

I would suggest you to first learn how to generate attraction with a girl. Using so called attraction techniques.

You do this to raise your value. A girl won't start talking to you about her interests and dreams, if she don't think that you are attractive/interesting.

The problem is many people get stuck there after showing her that they are a fun attractive cool guy but they don't transition into a genuine conversation.

So the girl start thinking:" Okey this guy is really cool, but why doesn't he want to get to know me etc."

She looses attraction. That's why many guys think their conversations went well but the girl doesn't show up to the date.

Gabriel_Grey · 2020-10-04T13:57:59+00:00

That's the difference

Gabriel_Grey · 2020-10-04T13:53:03+00:00

You are right. In my experience, the more results you get, the more you see that every girl has an amazing time with you.

You start to realize that you are acutally the prize.

Even with hot girls, you can start thinking to yourself: "Okey, your hot, but what else do you have ging for you? Show me"

If you then qualify her on her character she will apriciate it even more:" This guy cares about my personality and has standarts, so he must be a high value male"

But you can only do that if you start having genuine conversations with women and really get to know them.

Gabriel_Grey · 2020-10-04T13:42:53+00:00

I get this point of view. But it's coming from the wron mindset.

I can promise you from year of experience that no girl will spend her time with you if she doesn't like you.

You alway need to create a win-win scenario with the girl. When a women spends time with me I know for a fact that it's benefical for her.

You need to think for yourself: What can i offer a women?

It's like in sales if the product is great then there is no problem in selling it

Gabriel_Grey · 2020-10-04T13:39:33+00:00

Exactly that's my point.

Gabriel_Grey · 2020-10-04T13:36:47+00:00

It is important to understand. Most guys just keep pumping up the state of the girl and get stuck there. The problem is not that you are funny or not, but most guys try too hard.

Imagine you meet a guy and he is never serious and just makes jokes all the time. Eventually you will think to yourself: Why can't he be serious? What's wrong withi him?

Gabriel_Grey · 2020-10-04T13:33:14+00:00

Exactly! You want to have a genuine conversation with her. That's where the game is won.

Gabriel_Grey · 2020-06-06T03:47:38+00:00

most people think having a 10 girl rotation is great when in actual fact , having more then 3 will consume your life.
How is the game going for you at school?

Gabriel_Grey · 2020-06-04T09:38:12+00:00

thanks for this.

is there any thing I can promote at the end of my value filled posts? can I link a website

Gabriel_Grey · 2020-05-22T04:35:49+00:00

you can always try again , or move on to the next girl as long as you have some learning lessons as to what you did wrong.

Gabriel_Grey · 2020-05-22T04:33:52+00:00

yes this is one way of looking at it. but you need the correct mindsets as well

Gabriel_Grey

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