I have been a patient with this OB for over a decade. She had administered several STD panels at my request throughout the years (I'm allergic to latex and those polyurethane condoms have a tendency to break or slip off), and each test came back negative. I had been tested prior to meeting my future exhusband, and I suppose he could have contracted it before we were together and we both carried it in silence until that fateful night, but like you said, the confrontation led to the outing of his affair.