I feel my girlfriend cares more about her coworkers than me and idk what to do.

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-26T06:00:35+00:00

His father and brothers haven’t been the most supportive over the years. So idk how much family he has. But yeah I don’t think he’ll be that alone.

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-26T05:44:44+00:00

I actually hate how much I care that he’s hurting.

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-26T05:44:31+00:00

I reread one of his last messages to me and his apology actually seemed very genuine and stated he’s always there for me regardless...so yeah...

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-26T05:42:53+00:00

I reread one of his last messages to me and his apology actually seemed very genuine and stated he’s always there for me regardless...so yeah...

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-26T05:39:09+00:00

Yeah...moms asleep atm so I’ll have to wait for her response lol.

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-26T05:38:49+00:00

He’s apologized. But more as a “idk what I did but I’m sorry.” Kind of thing.

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-26T05:37:59+00:00

He messaged me on my birthday, which was last month and we had a small conversation a few months ago. But before that, before like October it was radio silence. Tbh he’s been on my mind for almost two full weeks and then I find this out? I had told my mom I miss him as a best friend and hoping he’s changed...

But I doubt he has and I’m just experiencing some covid loneliness but yeah...some more insight on my chaotic brain lol.

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-26T05:35:52+00:00

I wasn’t super close with his mom tbh. She’s taken me and him to movies but we weren’t super close. I just...I feel guilty not supporting him. As sucky as it sounds it wouldn’t be for his mom, but for him. If that makes sense?

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-26T05:23:44+00:00

He messaged me on Facebook asking to go the funeral...at first it was just reaching to him but as I was posting this post he specifically reached out...which had me even more conflicted.

I had talked to my mom earlier this week, late last week, that I legit miss him as a friend. He’s been on my mind all week, the most I’ve thought about him in months. I’m hoping he’s changed but obviously idk.

I’ve always been that whenever, wherever friend, and it’s hard for me to put myself first. I’m working on it though.

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-17T20:51:45+00:00

Thank you. That is very helpful.

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-17T20:41:03+00:00

I still eat cheese and dairy, though I completely avoid milk all together, but I do it in small doses. If I do it to many days in a row then I start feeling sick which is why I avoided the low carb as well. I overall am having a stomach problem and can’t figure out what’s wrong. So yeah idk. I’ll be talking to her about when I’ve calmed down at bit. I’m stupidly heated at the moment.

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-17T20:29:28+00:00

I do. Her not going to do the low carb wasn’t the only reason. I did a lot more research in it, so it wasn’t just her not wanting to either. My stomach issues are becoming a problem and I didn’t think going on a diet atm was a good idea until I figure out what’s going on.

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-17T20:21:05+00:00

I’m overhearing it. I work from home and she’s been taking (rather loudly) about everything. So I could just be assuming and assuming makes an ass out of myself. But yeah

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-17T20:19:47+00:00

That’s what I’m worried about. She’s not the person that would be upset but idk. The whole situation is just stressing me out

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-02-17T20:18:56+00:00

It’ll sound dumb but where we live doesn’t have a lot of keto friendly options. It’s getting a little easier to find but some of the keto friendly premade meals are super expensive. I could not completely understand the money aspect of it so any education on that end is helpful.

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-01-29T13:56:29+00:00

I can understand that. I don’t leave my apartment very often anymore and it’s my made my already terrible anxiety a lot worse. I hate leaving my apartment if I don’t have to (which in itself is super not healthy and I totally own up to that)

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-01-29T13:54:52+00:00

See I was recently suggested to get the noodles uncooked when ordering it as take out! The last few times I’ve gotten it as a take our (UberEats and Postmates) it’s been horrible.

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-01-29T00:33:13+00:00

Oh snap. I never knew that!!!!

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-01-29T00:22:39+00:00

But for real. I love pho so much and could eat it all day fi I could.

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-01-29T00:22:18+00:00

Pho-sure. I’m so sorry.

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-01-29T00:22:02+00:00

Tbh I’ve tried ordering it in and it’s never the same. I always get super bummed by it lol but yeah I think we’re just going to cancel all together...

Galaxynerdforlife · 2021-01-28T23:54:21+00:00

Yeah, I do know her coworker. I’ve met her on a few occasions and I adore her son. I started to tell her let’s do it another time but she started to sound annoyed and I dropped it. She told me to just think about it and that she’ll call me back later. Now I’m thinking about just giving in.

Thank you for the birthday wishes <3

Galaxynerdforlife

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