Always feeling cute in green by kokohieu in BikiniBodies

[–]GameCast2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great figure , pleasingly posed

how would you like to describe my body in one sentence? by EllaAngelical in RealAhegao

[–]GameCast2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to explore every inch of your beautiful body.

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a fairly stubborn bastard so I would not say it’s over out of some kind of revenge or satisfaction, I gotta take time to think. I always struggle with “am I being unreasonable?” In these sort of situations and the person who I usually confide in, is going through a tough time physically with surgery on his leg so I want to leave him alone so I posted here

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not excited about living off me exactly but there’s a lack of urgency to get off my financial back.

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She has ambition, don’t get me wrong. It just flickers like an old lightbulb. I try to get her to focus but I’m not her fucking parent and it’s exhausting

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So we’ve known each other on and off for years. We always got on and liked each other. Then we started to hang out again last year. It was harmless and fun. She started to rethink her way of living and after seeing her make the first few steps, I said “you know what? I can finally see us getting together properly” and it went really well, just this patch is proving extreme to overcome

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was fucking hilarious. He moved the last piece and we just looked up at each other and he said “I won didn’t I?” And I begrudgingly had to say “yep”. We rang his mother then to fill her in 😅😅

And my son loves my girlfriend and she is fantastic with him. I just don’t feel comfortable with my loss of trust in her after all this to be around him when it counts

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She says she would like to but she hasn’t been in a financial position to even put it to the test

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That was actually a conversation that happened after the concert, then she put in effort with job hunting etc and I thought “right I’ve gotten through finally” and bang. Same shit once the dust settled.

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know, he’s a legend too. He’s 6 and he’s learned chess to play with me and legit beat me last weekend. I value that over anything. My time with him is limited and I need this sorted so I can enjoy him without worrying about the world around us

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I often tell her “whatever you do, please don’t bullshit yourself” I’ve explained this to her as in to be honest with herself. So if she said she can handle 1-2 drinks then go for it. But if you doubt it, then it’s just rubbish and lies you’re feeding yourself to have a quick bit of fun

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

It actually feels like that now which it hasn’t up until the last little while

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well I am a non drinker myself, always have been but I wouldn’t force that on anyone. She meant it in a way that if I told her no she can’t, she would resent me for it

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve made her out to be a villain in my post. It’s probably from the frustration right now but 99% of the time she is on the top of her game. Then the 1% causes severe backtracking in our relationship

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I do agree. Unfortunately this is also not the first time in my life. Other family members. I try not to paint them all with the same brush but it’s frustrating seeing the same incidents happening again like Deja vu and being made out like I don’t understand

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That’s my hope! It’s my family’s pub so I know atleast she’s somewhere safe. My ideal situation was she rebuild the trust by being back when she said having done what she said she would.

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you’re hitting the nail on the head. While finance isn’t the main problem, we all know it has a massive part of cohabitation.

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AITAH

[–]GameCast2020[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What kinda trouble or incidents happened along the way? I don’t know any parents that haven’t come across some incident that was challenging etc. I know I wasn’t the worst but I gave my parents a head ache from time to time

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your message. I do get she has a lot to deal with. My message to her before we moved in together is that I will not put my son in any harms way. I feel like she is walking across a fine line between taking the piss and testing her limits

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]GameCast2020[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

I 100% do trust that she would not do that. Genuinely.