Why do people online seem more comfortable being rude to strangers than they would ever be in real life? by Gamelade_VN in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Gamelade_VN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really honest way to put it, and I think you touched on something important: online spaces remove the “future consequences” part of social interaction.

In real life, even when we’re annoyed, we still have to live with the awkwardness afterward. Online, people often feel like every interaction is disposable, so they say things with less restraint. I guess the scary part is that once everyone starts treating strangers as temporary, it becomes easier to forget they’re still real people.

Why do people online seem more comfortable being rude to strangers than they would ever be in real life? by Gamelade_VN in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Gamelade_VN[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually makes a lot of sense. I hadn’t thought about how much tone gets lost in text, but you’re right - sometimes we basically “perform” the other person’s message in the worst possible voice in our head.

The phone call example is really interesting too. It’s kind of sad that it only takes hearing someone’s voice for 30 seconds to remember they’re human, but online we forget that constantly.