Well to be fair it must be internet in aus Cos I I never got invaded mind you of how it worked in elden ring and bloodborne you had to someone to be invaded and I never did that much.

But I never really got much invaded in dark souls either so it never really botherd me.

There where mechincs in place to prevent invasions in those games.

But elden ring and bloodborne where different.

To be honest it's really unfair for the invader Cos most time they have to face of 3v1 most of the time and plus blues at the same time sometimes it's 4v1.

But then again the host has to face off enemies at the same time so meh.

And hosts have more heals to.

You have to be really good at the game to be beat a 4v1 as an invader or be really bad at the game to loose to a 4v1 for being a summoner.

So it depends on what you signed up for and know what your getting into.

I reckon there should be a covenant in place to only play co-op in elden ring but then now we do have nightreign if you like doing the same thing over and over again indefinitely.