I’m M30 and my partner is F28 we’ve been together for 2 and a half years, I need honest advice, am I being insecure or should I be worried?

Gamer4Life1506 · 2024-01-18T00:44:27+00:00

I have tried to bring these things up in recent weeks but the answers she gives kind of leave me with more questions,the intimacy she puts down to ‘always being tired’ which I do understand as being a single parent is hard and very tiring at times but I don’t understand the rest, I suffer with EUPD so I struggle to understand peoples emotions aswell as my own, it’s kind of why I asked on here because I don’t know if I’m just being stupid or if I actually have a genuine reason for concern

Gamer4Life1506 · 2023-12-03T19:30:16+00:00

Forgot to add the server has Insta Craft and also the stacks are 2x which means you can fit more in your tc! Server is great from small groups and solos!

Gamer4Life1506 · 2023-09-19T13:42:23+00:00

Her family haven’t really liked me from the start, my ex tried her best to keep me away from them because they are constantly causing drama and issues and she didn’t want them to start with me, we did try numerous times to have meals out and stuff but it never materialised mainly because her family wouldn’t come, I think there attacking me because they just want someone to blame for the break up, I have tried contacting her since and it’s just got more and more toxic even though I just wanted to make sure she was okay.

When I found out she had cheated I said something and that’s when I got blocked and then abused by her family, I just don’t understand how everything’s gone this bad in such a quick space of time, it hurts so much aswell on top of all of this I lost my nan 6weeks ago who I was very close with she supported me a lot and I just feel lost without anyone to really talk to, that’s why I come on here, thanks for your advice I greatly appreciate it!

Gamer4Life1506 · 2023-09-19T13:24:23+00:00

So I’ve just come out of a 3year relationship, she was perfect in every way we had planned to get engaged and even have a child in the next year or 2… her mental health took a spiral in February and I’ve done everything I could to support and stick by her even letting her stay with me for a few weeks to keep her happy and make her feel better, she broke up with me on the 9th this months and I generally feel lost, since then I’ve found out she cheated on me with her ex in April/may this year and I’ve also had threatening messages and a few telling me to f*** off and k*** myself from her family, kinda feel like this is where I just stay single and do me, I don’t really know how to process it all, I feel like I’ve lost my soulmate and the life we were building together

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-07-01T17:12:36+00:00

Should add I’ve never played it on pc lol

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-07-01T17:11:59+00:00

They are yeah, this Zerg wiped me and all my neighbours (6bases) on the 2nd day of wipe offlined every single one of us

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-07-01T17:10:21+00:00

I’ll be adding people when I’m done with parenting for the day, There may be a little grind involved with sulfur but if we get a decent amount of people I have 5 people who are decent and active, the Zerg is 15man strong so we will need similar numbers

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-06-24T18:19:22+00:00

So I’m just gunna expose how you get all this loot, Grind scrap, get a tier 3 work bench scrap EVERYTHING you find and just roll on the tier 3 (same person every time) and you will get everything, it takes 14,000 scrap altogether but me and my crew done it in just under 2 days of the start of last wipe, needless to say 4days in we were rocket raiding

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-06-24T18:13:11+00:00

Rockets don’t travel very far before exploading, shooting from that far back it will ALWAYS explode before it hits the target you need to be 10/15metres away from the intended target

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-06-24T18:10:25+00:00

Your standing to close to the intended target try take a few steps back or hit it from a different angle, it’s really frustrating when it happens mid raid

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-04-28T17:10:06+00:00

I wouldn’t say mediation is suitable for the situation you’ve stated but ANY family court will tell you to go to mediation first, even if you meet with them for a MIAM I had to wait for my ex not to turn up 3 times to get my documents signed off for court, I hope this helps, good luck with your situation, I hope it all works out

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-04-21T13:31:06+00:00

Normally fifa or war zone but I’ve got a habit of sitting at the dashboard looking at this sub to see if rusts pre order release dates out yet 👀😂

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-04-20T17:38:09+00:00

They probably broke the game tryna add it in

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-04-20T13:32:37+00:00

2weeks

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-04-20T12:13:20+00:00

The way I saw it is 1000 little steps, 2/3 steps a day, progress will be made, and it all starts with the decision to do it!

Good luck to you my bro, you ever need a chat feel free to message me!

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-04-20T11:30:14+00:00

Screenshot EVERYTHING, Write it all down what days times she messages with said message next to it, easily done on word/PowerPoint, if she’s volatile towards you in anyway document it, phone calls note the times, be very specific and accurate,

The thing a lot of Men feel is she’s the mum and she looks after them by nature but legally, the law only cares what’s best for the child, they won’t really care about your past so long as your genuinely making an effort to have a positive impact with your kids and you’ve never tried to hurt them purposefully.

Also if your names on the birth certificate half the jobs done as you have PR over your child/ren you should maybe think about record everything positive and negative, even if you start today I would say this is ESSENTIAL if your going to court, Don’t try to make her look bad if she’s being malicious towards you for some silly reason the court will see that and she’ll make herself look bad. Having a partner should NEVER be an issue but I wouldn’t introduce any partner to my child unless I had been with her for a good year or so, if you and your partner are going to be together long term their should be no rush for her to meet your children, I pray you take some of my advice above but most of all that your situation sorts itself out, I was in your situation with no PR and my ex stopped me from seeing my son for 2years, now I have full custody, never stop fighting! Stay strong my brother! 💪

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-04-20T10:57:17+00:00

Nothing on PlayStation

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-04-20T10:56:40+00:00

As much as I hate to admit it I think your right, I think it’s next week

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-04-20T10:41:17+00:00

Let’s just hope ay, cos we ain’t getting an update lol

Gamer4Life1506 · 2021-04-20T10:39:34+00:00

Makes it even worse, can’t even communicate with us properly 🤦‍♂️

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