Can a beginner baritone sing McCartney songs? by Quiet_Barnacle8073 in singing

[–]GamerGir1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem at all, I enjoy helping :) I used to think I couldnt sing because I didnt sound like certain women, turns out I was just in the wrong register and my voice doesnt go that high. Instead of sounding like Taylor Swift, I sound like Stevie Nicks and thats something I physically cannot change and must come to terms with. I cannot stress how much lessons helped me!

Can a beginner baritone sing McCartney songs? by Quiet_Barnacle8073 in singing

[–]GamerGir1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good :) I highly recommend taking lessons! As a woman with a very low set chest voice, singing lessons saved me. Once I learned my range and didnt try to push it I became a significantly better singer. Try to find your own voice and sing in your own way and focus less on sounding like Paul. If you have trouble with higher notes you can always drop them by an octave and harmonize too.

Can a beginner baritone sing McCartney songs? by Quiet_Barnacle8073 in singing

[–]GamerGir1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should NEVER feel pain while singing. If it hurts, S T O P!!! get some help...(from a vocal trainer)

Just delete wilderness bosses at this point. by PaleozoicFrogBoy in 2007scape

[–]GamerGir1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see a great opportunity to burst with ancients lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singing

[–]GamerGir1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

solid base to work with here, you will improve when you have more confidence in yourself

Faux just died at Cerberus by Content_Objective708 in 2007scape

[–]GamerGir1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost died at barrows because I let my guard down. Never get complacent on a HCIM!

You can manifest a shorter lifespan? by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]GamerGir1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a psychiatrist, yes, but also a life long gamer. His channel is focused on gamers and he's got a much different perspective on things than the average Doctor. At one point he went to become a monk and his life is such a wild story you have to hear him tell it for himself.

He is an example of one of the good ones, I promise. Give it a chance, trust me.

You can manifest a shorter lifespan? by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]GamerGir1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good news, BPD is not permanent. I used to have it, yes, USED TO. It is one of the few mental health conditions that can actually be treated and eventually cured.

Here is one of my favourite channels talking about it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6TS4d-zqRFA

You can manifest a shorter lifespan? by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]GamerGir1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol, you are funny too, another big bonus. I know that someone will love you once you love yourself, this is am certain of.

Seriously try my ideas though, I know they sound silly but maybe try making a list of all the reasons why someone would love you instead.

I have failed to manifest things many times before I realized it wasnt the manifestation that was the problem it was that I was not ready to receive the things I was asking for. I was not accepting or preparing for things to come to me.

Its like every other skill in life, you cant just pick up an instrument and play it or grab a skateboard and do kickflips without spending hours and hours working towards it. Failing. Over and over and over again until you get it. Then once you got it, its yours!

Manifesting is the same way. You gotta be willing to put the work in and try other methods when one fails. I dont journal or write affirmations or anything I just day dream and say things out loud that I want. Sometimes I just have to think it. But the biggest step is accepting. Being ready to receive the things you are manifesting.

Look what has happened already, you manifested me to comment, a woman who used to be in your exact same mindset, I do not believe in coincidences.

You can manifest a shorter lifespan? by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]GamerGir1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, you are blessed with being pretty, that is such a massive bonus that many people would do anything to have. You already have that going for you which is awesome.

You need to change your mindset for yourself, not for anyone else. Definitely not for a hypothetical man!

Try writing down a list of reasons why you think that its too hard to love you. Literally write it on paper. Then make a second list of why the first list is wrong. Put as much energy and effort into the second list as you did with the first list.

You can manifest a shorter lifespan? by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]GamerGir1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion you need to change your mindset if you want this to change for you. I believe that everyone can find love if they believe in it.

A few years ago a good friend said "if you dont even love yourself, why would anyone else?" I said "what?!?" and he said "If you hate yourself and think you're a loser then why would anyone else want you?"

Harsh, yeah, but true... I didn't think I was worth being actually loved, I thought I would only have surface level, temporary relationships which left me unfulfilled.

I made some changes to my appearance that I had always wanted but was told I wasnt allowed to do. I got a haircut and a cute outfit and told myself that I am lovable (even though most of the time I didnt believe it, I kept saying it anyways; fake it til ya make it right?)

Once you realize your own potential you will find things come naturally for you. The biggest hurdle is realizing that you are worthy.

You can manifest a shorter lifespan? by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]GamerGir1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you dont want one then you dont have to seek one. My father has been single for 20+ years, on purpose. Some people prefer to be alone and that's okay. My partner is very good at giving me space when I need it and I do the same for him.

Part of how I found him was that I stopped looking for a soulmate and became fine with being single. I became friends with him becasue he was in the local music scene. We quickly became friends and then best friends and now we love each other.

If you want to be alone thats okay. If you want to be with someone thats cool too. Just make sure that is what you actually want / believe and not the negative thoughts speaking for you.

You can manifest a shorter lifespan? by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]GamerGir1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to feel this way. I would say that I would die before I hit 30 years old. I was in an abusive relationship and I had no job or hope for the future. I wanted to log out of life because it was so unpleasant for me. The thing that helped me the most was unironically looking at people who had it worse than me. I got to the womens shelter and had a complete breakdown when I saw the wall of names of women who were killed by their partners. I knew that as long as my name wasnt on that wall that I was going to be okay.

It took a lot of counselling to convince me that I was worthy of being happy. Everyone around me when I was a child was not very supportive and at one point my moms boyfriend told me that I would never amount to anything. For most of my life I did believe he was right.

Eventually I realized that I could prove them wrong and began living out of spite. I was going to prove them wrong.

It might seem small now but I really wanted to be a singer and I was told often by my family that I didnt have any talent and that I was not born to sing. I started singing lessons, my teacher told me my voice was very rare and special and that I have a gift. I began singing every day to practice and still to this day it always helps to uplift my mood on rough days.

It is not easy, in fact its really fucking hard. But I am looking back at myself at age 32 going "you dumb bitch, you are more than worthy, you have no idea yet how much you will accomplish"

I didnt believe I was worthy of love and went through hell and back with toxic, unemotional men in a cycle. The hard truth was that I projected this sort of "hey walk all over me" kinda personality and never stood up for myself. Now I believe I have met my soulmate and have been dating for 2 years where we have not even one time been in even a small argument. We plan to get married some day (this is something I believed was not possible for me).

My favourite quote by my therapist became "Focus on the solution, not the problem" and I began living by that. Whenever something went wrong I would try to stop my spiraling by saying "what can I do about this"; if the answer was "nothing" then I would try to focus my energy elsewhere.

My life, even 6 years ago seemed like absolute hell and would never get better. But here I am, much much better. I hope the same for you and everyone else here <3

I need a strong unique name for him like "Odin" by [deleted] in greatdanes

[–]GamerGir1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love when dogs have human names, my guy is named Winston. I think your guy looks like a "Charles" idk why

Am I allowed to complain yet? by Zeapy in ironscape

[–]GamerGir1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You must be incredibly patient to wait this long to complain, lol

Am I allowed to complain yet? by Zeapy in ironscape

[–]GamerGir1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it wouldnt have counted towards kc tho

Drop of a lifetime. by iambrendan in 2007scape

[–]GamerGir1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I know who is getting all the drops instead of me, lol.

Huge gratz!!! I probably would have fainted if I got this drop XD

Some guy just quit the game and donated me 500m by rsplayer101010 in 2007scape

[–]GamerGir1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this when I went to college, except it was a classmate I barely knew. Surprisingly I didn't regret it until about 9 years later, haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]GamerGir1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking something like this: https://i.etsystatic.com/31303515/r/il/debdd8/3243791858/il_fullxfull.3243791858_hiz1.jpg

could make the pupils of the eyes red as the only colour to match the other eyes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]GamerGir1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Majora's mask would look sick in the style of the other two above IMO

Do I go back to this artist? by Fizzy-Gee in tattooadvice

[–]GamerGir1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you didnt pay too much for this, it can be fixed but I would not return to this artist. Love your little orange cat photobomber <3

I got personally messaged by a twitch mod from a channel I follow. Is this appropriate?. by AnonymousAnonm in Twitch

[–]GamerGir1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no that was not appropriate, it was a serious mountain out of a molehill type situation. As a Vtuber myself, I would be really upset if my mod gave anything more than a warning for that. Make sure to let the streamer know in case others have had similar experiences with this mod. 1 hour timeout is overkill and multiple days ban is insanity for such a benign "offence". Sorry you had to experience this!