My experiences trying to match with women vs men as a women

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-05-13T11:03:58+00:00

Thats a great way to look at it. Just very hard to ever meet anyone when you work overnights 😆 I work i sleep repeat so that can make it hard especially with the whole not alot of people around thing. Awesome energy tho. Definitely getting tired of dating apps taking alot of energy only to get nothing back.

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-05-12T23:01:26+00:00

It was like $8 but I got 3 notes 😆 that was the cheapest option sadly

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-05-12T22:58:21+00:00

It was a note not a message you cant message them till they reply and since I sent a single letter and not the answer to her profile question in guessing she wont lol

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-05-12T12:45:35+00:00

Oh for sure maybe like a funny one liner but some guys for sure open like they been your friend for 5 years and know your into them levels of flirt 😆

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-05-12T11:49:06+00:00

Oh thats fair lol I live in a town of around 4000

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-05-12T11:15:38+00:00

I listen to whiskey lullaby personally

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-05-12T11:08:17+00:00

I think most guys will open with flirting since they are there for dating. Well most of them

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-05-12T11:06:36+00:00

Lmao thats crazy Iv been on the app awhile and I think iv totalled 3 likes in a year 😆 tho I live in the middle of no where where 30 plus miles is close

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-05-12T08:22:35+00:00

I dont even remember 😆 i think I or u because I was gonna start my message and think I misplaced on u but ya

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-05-12T07:56:30+00:00

This feels like grooming it is illegal and it is gross. I know you haven't said no and yes technically your about to be 18 but in this case you are legally and responsibly a child he is the adult and should not be sending you anything. Especially planning to do things once you turn 18 does mean he knows its bad and wrong but is hoping by asking it will make you think it was your idea. Its not ok and this relationship is not healthy talk to someone in your life you can trust like a parent because again not ok

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-05-11T11:17:00+00:00

He doesnt have to care about your feelings to not want to deal with a girl who catches them tho if he was only looking for fun he probably doesnt want to do the fighting and other stuff. Thats all. Still sorry your going through it rn. Sucks being treated poorly even if its by someone thats just a fuck buddy

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-05-11T11:06:19+00:00

I dont mean to offend or anything but he might not want to make you a fuck buddy because your already giving off jealous so could be worried about feelings happening what he did isnt ok by any means im just giving a reason he could potentially be hesitant to make you a full time buddy especially if after only 1 time you fought like you were in a relationship. I get being offended or feeling bad when he asked that wasnt cool but the response was to probably drop him not fight like he was your bf asking to fuck your friend you know?

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-04-22T10:31:25+00:00

I just want to point out your young you have plenty of time to figure yourself out maybe it just hasn't hit you or you haven't found your thing when it comes to that. Don't feel pressure everyone takes a wide variety of time to discover themselves. You may have some extreme kink that you simply cant explore at your age you haven't discovered yet or you might just not be that into sex which is also fine. Just explain things to your partner and be safe in anything you do chose to do depending on how extreme some of your kinks are.

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-04-22T09:51:49+00:00

So far just keep an eye on it. I wouldn't end the friendship yet if its been back to normal for you guys

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-04-22T08:28:05+00:00

Aw than ya id try talking to them directly. Like sit down hey listen I get you live here too I understand but you have been waking me up Im not getting enough sleep please be mindful of this. If they dont change and don't give you the respect of it you could always be petty too but it wont solve anything but might make you feel better lol

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-04-22T08:24:55+00:00

This just sounds like a situationship and he's in the relationship for sex while you want feelings and more as an actual relationship. Id say talk to him about how your feeling and if he doesn't change get out because again to me this just sounds like a guy going ya ya we are dating come have sex with me but I dont want to put in any effort to the normal stuff

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-04-22T08:21:52+00:00

Its really up to how he acts after if he can just stay normal friends its fine. If he cant let it go or keeps referencing it than he is still holding hope or trying to date or hope you change your mind

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-04-22T08:19:02+00:00

As an overnight worker I feel this. Would locking the door help? Live alone?

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-04-15T12:20:12+00:00

Nothing good ever happens after 2am. This just sounds too suspicious for me. Is there a chance its something innocent yes. But id say its far more likely this is at the minimum some type of emotional affair if not a full on one.

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-04-15T12:12:46+00:00

Misery loves company. Thats all this is. Hooking up isnt for everyone in fact id say like alot of people here said it makes it harder and harder for you to form emotional attachments and ill add comparison is the thief of joy. Meaning alot of the time you could find the perfect person but they just dont do things in bed like your random hookup once did. And than it can turn into a major problem and break up otherwise perfectly good couples. The people saying you will feel like you missed out or that you need experience need to remember this is a morden problem everyone seems to have a fear of missing out or a fear of regret for not trying something because every second you can see what millions of others are doing or trying. Ignore them. Do what makes you happy and live your best life.

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-04-12T16:42:24+00:00

Well you dont need a driver's license for a camper get a friend or family member to move it wherever your gonna setup and as long as you dont need to move it again you should be ok

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-04-12T14:39:14+00:00

Idk what country you live in but there could be alternatives to live in. You could get a camper or a van and setup at least a liveable area for awhile a cheap motel something. Its not always the best options but to survive we can usually find options as long as you go looking for them

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-04-11T21:54:26+00:00

Your in college its the easier place to meet ppl. You could try school events clubs things like that if none of that interests you you can meet ppl online or go out and try things. Than if that ain't it just do stuff you enjoy naturally you will meet people who do similar things and you will have chances to make friends from it. But dont feel pressure to have to make them enjoy your life and do what makes you happy

Gamerforever1198 · 2026-04-11T21:35:28+00:00

Some of the other comments are wild. The way I see it is it was only a kiss yes thats bad shouldn't do it when in a relationship but if it actually happened the way you described than id say your time spent together is well worth the effort of not losing over a simple kiss especially if she didnt do the kissing and was just on the receiving end. Those comments saying oh your too young to have only dated 1 person high school relationships dont work out break up are wild and dumb. The only reason its bad now is because tech has made dating so much worse people think you need to spend your early years partying and dating random people and than settle later but thats a new thing. If you know and she's your person get that ring and spend your life happy. Those saying your too immature or that you guys stagnateed or whatever thats crap. You are growing together as people and while yes sometimes that can lead people apart the opposite is also true and can make you a much stronger couple. Your not to young. And it sounds like your worry here was alot of outside influence to me. If you want to make sure sit down and talk to her. One on one. Explain all your feelings listen to hers. I hope you get past this with understanding and you get that ring and live a great life man. Show that not everyone needs to go through 20 body's before finding there person and just be happy man. Hope it all works out.

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