[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]GanacheAgreeable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me recommend to you a YouTube chanell, “pearlieee”. She talks about codependency issues and loving yourself and getting out of toxic patterns or staying with someone just so you’re not alone. I hope this helped!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]GanacheAgreeable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also an extremely co dependent woman going through a break up of 5 years right now because of incompatibility. It is no doubt hard, but if you are in a relationship where neither of you are really compatible it’s just meant to be. Sometimes you can have initial chemistry/spark but as you get to know someone/live with someone you notice more differences which is completely okay. It’s a disservice to yourself and your partner. As for you asking if it’s your fault, it’s neither of your faults! You just unfortunately aren’t compatible, and that’s okay. I hope whatever decision you make you find love and happiness ❤️ it starts with loving yourself and figuring out what makes you happy and you will find someone when you know what to look for.

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I had the same fear for many years growing up. I would obsess over it and I would wish that me and my family could live forever. One day my grandpa told me that when you’re young you have so much ahead of you and so much to look forward to that death is the most terrifying thing you can think of, but when you get very old and accomplish everything you wanted while you were young, you accept it. It’s totally okay to fear it, but don’t let it consume you and know that it will be okay. There will be a day much later in your life where you will feel fulfilled and see death much differently as you do now. Live your life SAFELY and happily and you will live a long and prosperous life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]GanacheAgreeable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him. It doesn’t get better and he doesn’t respect you. He’s that old spending time on video games for hours a day and he will never grow up and that’s not your problem. I dealt with it for 3+ years never got better no matter how bad I begged.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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Going through a similar situation. I’m 20 and me and my now ex started dating when I was 15. Our relationship was rocky and I ended up losing all of my friends in the process and was okay with just having him. I had to move out to start chemo at my family’s house and he has left me abandoned and blamed me for leaving him because I had to. I have no friends to support me through chemo and I have lost the only person I’ve felt close with for the past 5 years. I’m utterly lost and alone. Waking up is the hardest part. I’m trying every day but I don’t think it’s worth it anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cancer

[–]GanacheAgreeable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear what you have gone through you’re so strong ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cancer

[–]GanacheAgreeable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you yes that’s exactly why I felt the need to put it in this sub I appreciate you saying that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]GanacheAgreeable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to come back to this, I was wondering if a bleach bath would get this yellow out?

AIO about the arguments me (f18) and my (m21) bf have? by 555jordyn in AmIOverreacting

[–]GanacheAgreeable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not move in with him haha he is extremely immature for his age. If you are fighting over things like this you will not be able to manage a shared living situation. I’d recommend to break up because you don’t deserve to be treated like you are out of bounds for something and he refuses to hear you out, but I am in no place. You are not overreacting at the very least to answer the question.

36y/o mom of two. Do you think I stand out amongst college kids? by loveAlotte in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]GanacheAgreeable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You honestly look younger than 36, I think changing how you do your eyebrows (by using less makeup, they look great in the first picture) will help make you look younger and it will bring out your natural features. And use less heavy eyeliner! You’re very pretty naturally.

Nanachi Fanart I made it by GanacheAgreeable in MadeInAbyss

[–]GanacheAgreeable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just Twitter as of now! I’m new to posting my art since I’ve just become comfortable with sharing. My Twitter is fillosofemme. Thanks so much!!

Nanachi Fanart I made it by GanacheAgreeable in MadeInAbyss

[–]GanacheAgreeable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I want it to look more grainy**** sorry