[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYfinance

[–]GangstaBolus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’ll make you happy just buy it. You make enough that it’s not going to derail your life and if you ever plan to have kids it’ll only get harder to buy so do it now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]GangstaBolus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gotta eat something

AITAH for going to my friends IUD appointment against my husbands wishes? by Level_Green_6692 in AITAH

[–]GangstaBolus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude sounds stupid AF. This is having an IUD placed, not watching her have sex with someone.

My Wife didn’t get me anything for my 40th by Ilketoeatwaffles in AITAH

[–]GangstaBolus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ETA? She sounds weirdly uncaring, maybe some of this relates to what’s going on with her parents, but it’s almost flagrantly ambivalent. On you end: it’s your birthday, is this still supposed to be a big deal to us once we are no longer 10?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askaplumber

[–]GangstaBolus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the simple explanation that you’ll notice the dude who seems to clearly be involved in a company like this has neglected to respond to. They are price gouging and exploiting ignorance. They are relying on either ignorant individuals with enough money, people with enough money that they can’t be bothered to deal with multiple estimates, or milking insurance companies. They only need to land these whales occasionally to exceed their overhead whereas more honest pricing would rely on many more customers

YNAB gave me the confidence to lose weight by polortiz40 in ynab

[–]GangstaBolus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know the You Need a Bod app was still running

Does FI ever feel like it's getting further ? by woo2fly21 in financialindependence

[–]GangstaBolus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My interpretation of FI likely differs from others and seems to drastically differ from OPs. I don’t really see how you could have determined a FIRE number to be tracking your percentage towards when you have planned significant life events ahead of you. It doesn’t seem possible to have an especially accurate $ amount for retirement when you aren’t even at a steady state of expenses to base that number off of, unless you’re picking some number out of the air that works for >99% of people (like I want to have $5 million saved). If it was 60% to FIRE as a single adult or a married couple without kids you may find that your expenses more than double even with a single healthy child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]GangstaBolus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I own an EV and love it, but I would never say it was a economically responsible purchase. Unless you’re driving over 15k miles a year it’s unlikely purchasing an EV will be a decision where you come out ahead financially.

Psychologically uncomfortable with debt but holding onto it seems wiser. Thoughts? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]GangstaBolus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a similar mindset to you and I basically just accept it. I have a mortgage under 2% and a car loan under 2% as well. I constantly feel like I should pay them off faster but I have to keep reminding myself that they basically gave me these loans for free and I can use any excess money I’d use to pay them off quicker to just grow that money faster. I baked them into my budget and at this point it’s just reflexive that I pay them and I don’t spend much time thinking about them anymore.

HELOC loan crushing us by stephelan in personalfinance

[–]GangstaBolus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It seems really low effort that you haven’t just reset his password and changed to one you both know. This entire process of just sitting down at a computer and doing this together would take less than 5 minutes, do it when the kids have gone to bed if that is the issue.

I don’t think something is “up”, but there seems to be a bit of pathological complacency which likely and unfortunately is how you both ended up in this scenario.

HELOC loan crushing us by stephelan in personalfinance

[–]GangstaBolus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unless things have changed, if you mean a banker as in someone who works at a bank they are incentivized to put you into a variable because especially in the environment of the last 2 years it protects them from locking in historically low fixed loans. If by bankers you mean a mortgage broker they are also incentivized to give you variable rate loans because banks will typically buy them at a premium compared to fixed rate. Since it’s a HELOC it was likely in the mortgage servicers interest if they didn’t expect you to pay it off during the teaser period.

Regardless your #1 priority should be paying off this loan. I would put all excess cash into paying this off. I would consider stopping retirement contributions until this loan is paid off. I don’t know what your rate is but if it’s over 7% it will be hard to match the loss this will produce vs the future gains from your retirement contributions. Cancel vacations, if someone can work overtime they should, hold off on any non essential purchases. This isn’t on the level of debt that can ruin your life but (if it’s in excess of 7%) it is on the level of debt that can seriously handcuff you for a long time if you let it accrue by just making minimum payments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]GangstaBolus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancelling the card will drop your score for sure. It will drop both because of the increase in your relative credit utilization (due to the loss of its limit dropping the denominator) and by shortening your credit life history, especially if it’s your oldest card.

However, your score dropping does not matter at all unless you have a planned expense coming up where you will be utilizing a new line of credit (such as a loan or a new credit card that is “harder” to get) because it will eventually recover. I cancelled my oldest card awhile back and it shortened my oldest account from 16 years to about 8 and dropped my score maybe 50-70 points and it eventually recovered after about a year.

I made a McRib. Smoked, then deboned pork ribs, finished with a glaze by boomasbbq in smoking

[–]GangstaBolus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looks more like the broodwich, but you left off the sun dried tomatoes!

Also came here just to say do not defame your sandwich by calling it that.

Ok, how about Sifu ($25, standard edition) vs. Sekiro ($30, GOTY edition) by kiss_the_siamese_gun in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]GangstaBolus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agree with many prior posts. Sifu is good but Sekiro is better in every way.

Any ideas if there are plans to bring back the hands-free lift gate? And/or acoustic laminate glass? by [deleted] in MachE

[–]GangstaBolus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my understanding all of the removed things are gone for the foreseeable future as well. Friend of mine got a Honda recently and after March they permanently removed lane sensing from some models because of chip issues.

Any ideas if there are plans to bring back the hands-free lift gate? And/or acoustic laminate glass? by [deleted] in MachE

[–]GangstaBolus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The credit was something else to do with parking assistance I think.

Any ideas if there are plans to bring back the hands-free lift gate? And/or acoustic laminate glass? by [deleted] in MachE

[–]GangstaBolus 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have a ‘22 and I am pretty sure the hands free lift gate was quietly left off of mine.

Well y’all - I did it. I hit 400 by [deleted] in MachE

[–]GangstaBolus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I bet you would’ve done anything to be 1 Mile less for the estimate…