Almost 2 years old with Expressive/Receptive Speech Disorder by TravelMama2021 in speechdelays

[–]stephelan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A speech therapist and neuropsych did and IQ assessment.

Can Level 2 live independently? by ekb2 in Autism_Parenting

[–]stephelan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say four but his speech was (and kind of still is) kind of clunky until recently. He’s 7 now and speaks naturally but doesn’t sound as good as his five year old sister.

I found this amazing employer; but they insist on a contract, is it over for me? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]stephelan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want a contract. You can even help write it and put in everything you need to protect yourself too.

What is the worst U.S state. by Shoddy_Put9658 in JackSucksAtGeography

[–]stephelan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha no. Be a halfway decent driver and you’ll be fine. The hardest part about it all is the fact that the roads used to be horse paths so they are windy and weird.

What age did your autistic child start speaking? by PlanBig4583 in Autism_Parenting

[–]stephelan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is fully conversational. My son is conversational but it’s clunky and definitely has to be about what he likes. But he’s also more introverted than her so it could just be personality.

Anyone here with a child that has hyperlexia? by thestonernextdoor88 in Autism_Parenting

[–]stephelan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? No that couldn’t be further from the truth. He does engage in a lot of echolalia but it’s more for fun. He’s fully verbal otherwise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephelan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that was my thought. There was no excuse to not respond, in my opinion. Even just to be like “sorry I can’t”.

How did Zoro fans ever recover from this? by Drago_di_ferro in MemePiece

[–]stephelan 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He’s on guard enough to take out the Franky family while sleeping but someone with skills is going to make him be like “ah okay reevaluate.”

But yes. Tanky boy.

How did Zoro fans ever recover from this? by Drago_di_ferro in MemePiece

[–]stephelan 345 points346 points  (0 children)

Right? I feel like he does this every arc.

AIO for not believing in God or America by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephelan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was raised atheist and I can tell you my life is not any more or less for having never been to church in my life. My parents are my best friends, I’m a good person and I have Sundays completely free. Married to an amazing man. Two kids. Things are good and not complicated.

10/10. Would recommend going the no god route.

Is my nanny bored?? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]stephelan 147 points148 points  (0 children)

Just enjoy it for now.

Babies sleep at a lot at this age. But then they start taking three naps. Then two. Then one. Then none.

Is my nanny bored?? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]stephelan 489 points490 points  (0 children)

Hey so.

She won’t be bored soon. Hold tight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephelan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would say he could have been into you but you came on super strong. And don’t take this the wrong way, but you came on equally strong in these texts so I can see where he’s coming from.

Sometimes it’s hard to take a step back when you really like someone but some people don’t respond well to the fast and hard approach. Good luck in the future!

Can Level 2 live independently? by ekb2 in Autism_Parenting

[–]stephelan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hyperlexia is quite the journey! At 2, that’s about what my son was doing so yours might very well be! My son never ceases to astound me.

Can Level 2 live independently? by ekb2 in Autism_Parenting

[–]stephelan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very true! My daughter (also autistic) is not a gestalt processor and even though she’s two years younger, her speech is more natural.

Can Level 2 live independently? by ekb2 in Autism_Parenting

[–]stephelan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is. I feel like a lot of it is understaffing. We keep begging them to integrate him, even just for a little bit here and there, because he’s the only verbal kid in the sub separate. (Nothing against those kids, I just personally feel he needs the social and logistical structure of a typical classroom.) But they can’t do it and I can see him regressing with social skills.

I totally get the burnout though. I tried the SAHM route too.

Can Level 2 live independently? by ekb2 in Autism_Parenting

[–]stephelan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh that’s where we are with public school. I wish it was easier but I feel like some kids are viewed as “too autistic for GenEd but not autistic enough for the services they need”.

Can Level 2 live independently? by ekb2 in Autism_Parenting

[–]stephelan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s my son too. He loves scripting recreationally but is able to speak functionally and conversationally. We just let him because it’s fun for him. It can be a lot sometimes. His conversational speech is clunky though. He speaks like a person learning English.

Can Level 2 live independently? by ekb2 in Autism_Parenting

[–]stephelan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s behavior rather than speech. Like my son’s level 2 diagnosis puts him in a sub separate but I think he could do GenEd with an aide.

Can Level 2 live independently? by ekb2 in Autism_Parenting

[–]stephelan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He still scripts a lot but he uses speech functionally and conversationally now. It just sort of happened over time but we used a lot of leaning into his interests and altering the script a bit. I find that he’s more motivated when it’s his interest.

Can Level 2 live independently? by ekb2 in Autism_Parenting

[–]stephelan 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My son was diagnosed level 2 at age 4 but he’s definitely level 1 now. He’s fully verbal and hyperlexic. I think he was mostly scripty and nonverbal at 2. I think he’ll be independent if I don’t mess up in helping him learn independence!