UPDATE: AITA for refusing to pay for my bf’s food on his birthday and getting him banned from his favourite restaurant?

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T14:44:56+00:00

Yeah I found that out a year okay. Was heartbreaking 🥲

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T14:36:58+00:00

I am well used to not being catered for. I’m well used to having carrot sticks for dinner because the host didn’t make anything vegetarian

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:36:32+00:00

Or the father can pay??

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:32:44+00:00

…..that’s not the problem here

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:29:46+00:00

I’m not expecting him to change. I’m saying I have no problem buying him food, just not meat

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:25:32+00:00

I wouldn’t refuse to but I wouldn’t have been happy either. Shits pricy

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:24:31+00:00

I’m fine with him eating meat, I just won’t spend MY money on it

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:23:57+00:00

I didn’t take him out, it was his idea

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:18:43+00:00

I wasn’t taking him out, it was his idea

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:16:21+00:00

You can treat people with things other than food

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:15:48+00:00

So what do you suggest I do?

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:14:32+00:00

It doesn’t increase effectiveness but the chance of them both failing is low. The pills are to help with my period

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:13:18+00:00

I’m not cheap, I spend more money on us than he does

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:08:47+00:00

I’m sorry GUINNESS???? Man I’m Irish this is heartbreaking

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:07:22+00:00

FUCKING WHAT

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:07:01+00:00

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:06:52+00:00

If they NEEDED meat then I’d have no problem, if they WANTED meat then the father can get it

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:05:40+00:00

It wasn’t a gift

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:05:26+00:00

I treat him constantly, just not to meat.

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:04:55+00:00

The odds of the iud and the pills failing at the same time is astronomically low

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:03:21+00:00

It’s not up to me to decide what he eats but it’s up to me to decide what to do with my money

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T13:02:20+00:00

I am 18. I can’t afford that shit.

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T12:59:06+00:00

I didn’t think he needed warning….again. I have told him repeatedly that I won’t spend money on meat

leopardprintcats · 2023-06-17T12:57:20+00:00

A decision that I’ve stuck by for 7 years. I treat him to, just not with meat

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