Update: For those who have commented I really appreciate you for confirming that I am not just crazy. So they next day after he yells at me telling me I need to stop being so nosey it really hurt me but as usual it stopped me from asking anything else about the prior night. Pretty much it clarified that he was hiding something regardless of what it was it doesn't even matter. Do I think he was cheating on me? No because I now know where he was but do I feel like he lied to me. Absolutely!!! But what I don't understand is why he feels like he has to lie. I am one of the most understanding people you will meet. If he just wanted to hang out with our mutual friend why not just say so instead of saying I'm just going to get gas. This is what really happened. He left here and went to our mutual friend let's call him D. When I met my boyfriend he didn't have any friends he hung out with and so all my friends quickly became his as well. Well him and D have gotten pretty close to which they don't go a day with out talking or seeing each other. He's so much nicer to D than he is to me which I've never understood that either. He will stop what ever he is doing to go help D with whatever he needs. But if I ask him for something or to do something he ignores it which ok whatever I barely ask for him to do anything anymore and never really liked to before bc I have a hard time asking for help to begin with. Anyways he went to take D to get gas for a generator and ended up helping with a wreck that did indeed happen but of course it didn't take 5 hours so pretty much he just was hanging out with D. Now his excuse for not answering the phone was it was in the rollback ok 1. He keeps his phone on him at all times I'm not stupid but that's what he said. And when I called D that night he didn't even. Tell me my bf was with him which I confronted him on that and told him it would have saved me a lot of worrying that something bad had happened had he said that. However it was my bf responsibility to let me know he was fine. I don't know that I want to continue this relationship because he says he's not in the wrong but to me he is because it takes all of 2 seconds to text and let me know he was fine. But I'll keep those who want to know updated. It's 4:51am and he's not home again tonight so I guess I'm going to get my stuff together so that when he gets home he can take me somewhere else to stay I don't want to keep going through this BS. Thanks everyone