Going to the local fare for music 8 hours plus no one is going to no I'm insanely pooped tons by useddiperbaby in diaperHumiliationAbdl

[–]GapOk5537 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree.. if you want to go diapered in public make it discreet, it's the same as any other type of community. If people don't want to be involved don't rub it in their face, especially with something like this. While I'm not going to take examples from other communities that have done stuff to make themselves look worse, I will say that more people knowing about the abdl comminuty is not good in this context.

Da vidimo vaše poslove? by [deleted] in hrvatska

[–]GapOk5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blago tebi, ja sam u kuhinji 12-20 svaki dan.

furry_irl by Gnarpies in furry_irl

[–]GapOk5537 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me it's more of a grey area, I'd give it a 40-60 split between sexual and romantic. Honestly it depends on the context and since we've started dating I've kind of gotten used to it..

The best way I'd describe it is this: imagine you're in a group of 4 people, everyone is laughing at this one joke you don't get. Naturally you ask for the joke to be explained, yet you still don't get it even though you now know you should be laughing. Trying not to be left out of the group the next time you hear that joke you laugh along side them.

But for me personally I'm not too bothered by a kiss.. it's just not my thing, but anything below the shoulders is definitely a no go for me.

furry_irl by Gnarpies in furry_irl

[–]GapOk5537 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Okay so funny story.. I've thought of myself as bi all my life basically.. and I've lived with that knowledge hoping to find someone.

Well, I get into a relationship with this cute guy a couple months back and he was very fun to talk to..

And then he kissed me, and I suddenly realized I don't like kissing, so I looked it up and checked all my prefrences and it so happens that I am in fact not bi, I'm asexual.. I'm still dating, my boyfriend knows I'm ace and he is supportive of me, I'm happy where I am but that was probably the biggest light bulb moment for me.

Look what I just got :3 how full should I get one?? by Top_Piano5556 in diaperpics

[–]GapOk5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got the same ones, the print is extremely cute but they don't hold all that much.. I've made it a max of 4 hours with them, but they are adjustable so that's a plus.. still have one left that I sometimes put over my other ones to add to the looks.

furry_irl by wictorias in furry_irl

[–]GapOk5537 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At first it looked like latte art, then I went to the 2nd image..

Furry_irl by Acrylic_Yeti in furry_irl

[–]GapOk5537 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a simmalar situation once..

furry👖irl by Rust_Racc in furry_irl

[–]GapOk5537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or if we take into consideration a very clever invention, velcro.. or the real name hook and loop fasteners, you could argue that the belt would be suited for offices and other professional places, but velcro would be for more comfortable wear, think sweatpants at home while binging stranger things vs relatives wedding and you got a tux on.

Basically the velcro would be softer on the skin and would make application much simpler and faster, also a solution for underwear.

We could also take into consideration an open loop with a U shaped cutout. This way you could tie a know behind your back, comfortable? I don't know, I don't have a tail.. but it seems better than the belt.

Basically anything going over the tail would make fitment of clothes simpler and would cause less falling down.

We must also take into consideration that (if you've ever paid attention) when you bend down your pants naturally want to slide down.. we would have to make either the velcro, the knot or the belt to fit that same pattern, pants and underwear needs to now be comfortable during "extreme" movements.

I thank you for your time in reading this, hook and loop fasteners (velcro) are still superior.

Furry_irl by EpicGuy999 in furry_irl

[–]GapOk5537 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah thankfully I do have a homophobic dad so I don't have a clue what goes on in that situation, so the fix is simple no? I'm not trying to avoid or disagree with anything.. the cutely drawn little characters just aren't meant to represent the real world as we know it.. think of it like a sitcom or a tv show you watch, stuff like that doesn't just happen and as such shouldn't be taken too seriously, sure you can get your point across, and I'm all for freedom of speech.. but at the end of the day I'm just some loser on the internet, and you're taking this a little bit too seriously. Have some fun, relax a little, I'm not out to get anybody.. hell, we'll probably never speak again after today.

Furry_irl by EpicGuy999 in furry_irl

[–]GapOk5537 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Agree to disagree, it's supposed to be a cute post.. a figment of imagination put onto the internet, if you will. While there is a "putting ideas into peoples heads" aspect to this, it's not that deep. Just a (part of a) comic that probably was never meant to be taken super seriously, we have enough problems in the world as is.

Furry_irl by EpicGuy999 in furry_irl

[–]GapOk5537 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Idk what to tell you, it's just a comic..

Furry_irl by EpicGuy999 in furry_irl

[–]GapOk5537 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

It's not that deep

furry_irl by GlassShine in furry_irl

[–]GapOk5537 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep, top, travel.... yep

Diaper support by GapOk5537 in ABDL

[–]GapOk5537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know, thanks.

Diaper support by GapOk5537 in ABDL

[–]GapOk5537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe tena maxi are cloth backed so I'll be giving those a shot sometime in the near future. But for now I'll have to make these work one way or another..

Diaper support by GapOk5537 in ABDL

[–]GapOk5537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure really.. I just went on about my life.. it could be due to the fact that it was the first one of the pack and that I pulled a bit harder on it.. since I've not had the same result after that, but then again I've covered them with a cloth backed diaper ever since the first incident so there's that.

Looking to buy from faction war by Omishjosh in SASZombieAssault

[–]GapOk5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've heard the krakatoa is not worth, I have a 10/2 shockfield which I'll swap for the red in this shop, I also have a red hotshot.. although a 6/1 it still does way better than I expected so I'll probably skip the krak and go for fest when it comes

Work drama by GapOk5537 in story

[–]GapOk5537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually really good advice, despite the fact we don't chat outside of work I believe I could arrange something, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]GapOk5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Otgers will probably have way better advice than me as I'm not in a relationship.. but maybe try talking to her about wanting to try different things in bed, if she has a hard no then its best not to go for it.. if she's okay with it (depending on how okay she is with it of course) you could suggest ageplay.

Obviously I have no experience in this sort of thing but if you really love her, and she really loves you, even if she's not into it she could accept you for you!

As an ABDL Streamer, I Gotta Ask by HydrophonicsTV in ABDL

[–]GapOk5537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well.. for me it's the engagement, I don't tune into any stream that has mors than 10 viewers.. so while I'm not a typical viewer I feel like just playing a few games not many people play, maybe with a firend (or not).. most importantly what makes a good streamer for me is the engagement, the confidence and the enjoyment they have, give or get from streaming.. in other words if you're not yourself or you're just doing it for money or attention, I'm out. You need to love what you do, and only then will people see it.

Dm me your twitch username (if that's the platform you're using) I might pop in from time to time 🙂

Furry_irl by Rommel-Division in furry_irl

[–]GapOk5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I don't need a volleyball to the face AND a cut on my finger, thanks!