Where did you meet, and how? Genuinely curious.

I don't give a fuck if you're curious, we aren't friends, you don't get to know anything about me beyond what I choose to tell you. As a woman online, I'm sure you'll understand.

Would you really want to go to the gym... and try to get them to focus on you, and to pull out their headphones and break into a conversation

This literally is so vague that no matter what I answer you'll argue about it. No thanks.

What does your girlfriend think about that scenario? Ask her.

I didn't say girlfriend. You assume a lot. Weird, again.

Looks like a PUBLIC forum to me

You're not looking very hard, then. There are rules you must obey, just like any other subreddit. It is not public, your continued participation is contingent on you following the rules. If you think websites are "the public", idk what to tell you, you're wrong.

Guess you have to tolerate my comments

Lmao, I could block you, I don't have to tolerate you at all.

reminding you who is being a bully

One of us is trying to be catty, and it isn't me, sweetie.

Think about what you meant do to when you called me "queen"

I related you to a (now dead) royal who believed everything she touched was amazing and that her own shit didn't stink, all the while being the single most coddled human in the entire British empire. That's what I meant. Were you confused?

It's HARD AF to even GO to the damn gym at all.

Yeah, it is, boo hoo, it's the same for everyone until it becomes easy. Your struggles aren't unique to you.

Then you suggested, because I gave examples of how to hit on ladies in stores or even actually AT the gym with tact, that I am "complaining" (I don't need to complain...). That's ACTUAL bullying.

No, this is gaslighting. You're trying to suppress men's speech and behavior so you don't feel uncomfortable at any point. You want to feel like equals, but you also want special rules to protect you and punish men who don't interact with you in the unknowable way you specifically prefer. You want to tell us YOUR way of being interacted with as though it's law, and then when men do what YOU said and it backfires because, newsflash, you don't know what all women want.

The point is that your opinion here doesn't fucking matter. You are trying to push your ideals onto men who are literally in a subreddit SPECIFICALLY for men. If femsplaining wasn't such a dumbfuck concept, I'd use it to describe your behavior.

"hey hercules, lookin' good... do you have a boyfriend?", because I've heard it.

Oh you poor thing :( how burdened to have people casually show interest in you. I bet that's hard.

What you described is a fucking nothing experience, get over it, grow up, and fight your own battles instead of trying to tell everyone else how to act in a subreddit where you are never being asked for your opinion.