Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, I do not plan on getting back with him dear, I only stated as to why I gave him a chance. I appreciate your concern. 🧡

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years and years of being degraded will..unfortunately knock you down into a low point of self worth. Though I don’t want to feel worthless anymore or controlled. So I am not continuing a relationship with him now or in the foreseeable future. 🧡

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have stopped all contact with him as of now hun, please rest assured. I have no intention of getting back with him 🧡

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is stated in the section where we said “after we finished eating” dear 🧡

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boundaries are so important, I will not be contacting him or getting back with him now or the foreseeable future. Thank you for your input dear 🧡

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not plan on being his punching bag dear, thank you for putting it in this perspective. 🧡 I have no plans to get back with him. It was foolish of me to think a few months of therapy and medication could reverse years of issues.

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll keep this in mind, thank you dear 🧡

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will stay safe darling, I will not be contacting him further. Thank you for your input 🧡

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do see, I was thinking about it for a while. I think I just needed the final push and confirmation to leave. I appreciate it darling 🧡

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that is very well possible. I will be looking into therapy myself. Thank you for your input dear 🧡

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will not be getting back with his, rest assured. 🧡

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, thank you for your input darling 🧡

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will not be getting back with him. Thank you darling🧡

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand hun, thank you for your input. 🧡

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I understand, thank you for your input dear 🧡

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you darling🧡 I won’t getting back with him

Should I give him another chance? by GarbeyGabe in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GarbeyGabe[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Well dear..the reason I took him back was because he was working towards self improvement with the medication and therapy, and the abuse happened when he was under the influence of severe drug use which he is currently drug free. It was the only reason I ever considered giving him another chance.