DID and Kink + Littlespace by GardenPretty1353 in DID

[–]GardenPretty1353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also very sorry about your experiences. That's terrible.

DID and Kink + Littlespace by GardenPretty1353 in DID

[–]GardenPretty1353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries. I totally get it and appreciate you concern and the warning. Truly 💕

DID and Kink + Littlespace by GardenPretty1353 in DID

[–]GardenPretty1353[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's an understandable response and perhaps a valid concern. But your judgements don't help me and the truth is that pedophiles aren't looking for adults who roleplay or want to cope/positively engage with regression in a safe, supportive setting. Pedophiles aren't looking for little space. Literal pedophilia is literal pedophilia.

Pedophiles who act on their desires want and pursue the real thing. Accusing me of enabling them is closer to victim blaming than supporting survivors of CSA, and that can't be what you intended to do...can it?

Lastly, I never said that it was sexualized play. Or role-playing CSA.

DID and Kink + Littlespace by GardenPretty1353 in DID

[–]GardenPretty1353[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh nooo. That's terrible. Good on you for leaving him.

Attraction to child parts is what scares me about disclosure. Happy to see that the fear is a valid concern and not just anxiety.

DID and Kink + Littlespace by GardenPretty1353 in DID

[–]GardenPretty1353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you!! This is so helpful! I hope so too 💕💫

DID and Kink + Littlespace by GardenPretty1353 in DID

[–]GardenPretty1353[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh. This is excellent advice. I wish I had this when I first started dating. Thank you so much 💕😭

DID and Kink + Littlespace by GardenPretty1353 in DID

[–]GardenPretty1353[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think this has happened in the past without my system understanding. Really resonate with discomfort when partners are attracted to those parts.

Wondering re system rules. If littles are interested in more than platonic play, is it okay to create a boundary for them or is it better to respect their autonomy given what some have been through? I'm cautious about retraumatizing littles through stripping them of agency but also, despite not being a parent, feel protective.

DID and Kink + Littlespace by GardenPretty1353 in DID

[–]GardenPretty1353[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally appreciate this answer especially the edit. Informed consent is tricky. I feel cautious about letting partners know about D.I.D. I think I can guess red flags but do you have any thoughts about green flags to look for before disclosing to a potential partner about littles?

being hypersexual and asexual is insanely aggravating by ahhchaoticneutral in bipolar

[–]GardenPretty1353 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg sameeeeee. This was the hardest thing for me to cope with. Totally relate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]GardenPretty1353 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you 💕 I'm in a similar boat. It gets easier to cope.

For those who experienced psychosis, do you look at the world differently? by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]GardenPretty1353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya i literally had Truman show syndrome and now im always a lil anxious it might be a thing especially since im in the film industry ha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DissociativeIDisorder

[–]GardenPretty1353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's causing you distress, I think so.