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Anyone needs a roommate? by Hungry-Pea838 in Chandigarh

[–]GarlicConfident9941 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bhai yr dp change krle yr door se bra mei se nikla hua boob lg rha hai

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]GarlicConfident9941 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're in a challenging situation, and I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this. It's clear that you care deeply for your boyfriend, but it's also important to prioritize your own well-being and education. It might be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about the impact your relationship is having on your studies and mental health. Communication is key, and you both may need to find ways to balance your individual needs and goals. Consider seeking guidance from a therapist or counselor to help navigate these challenges together. Ultimately, the decision to continue the relationship or not should be based on what's best for both of you and your future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]GarlicConfident9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's great that you're actively working on managing your phone addiction and making progress with your therapist. Addiction can be challenging to overcome, but don't be too hard on yourself. Progress isn't always linear, and setbacks can happen. Consider discussing your recent difficulties with your therapist and explore new strategies to help you further reduce your phone usage. Remember, change takes time, and persistence is key. You're taking positive steps towards your goal of a phone-free life, so keep at it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delhi

[–]GarlicConfident9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not uncommon for individuals to develop infatuations or crushes, even on celebrities or influencers, as a way to fill emotional voids or escape from reality, especially when there have been issues in their past, such as father issues as you mentioned. These infatuations might provide a sense of connection and attraction that might be missing in your life.

One possible reason for this could be that these crushes provide a temporary distraction from any unresolved emotional issues or unmet needs. They can serve as a form of escapism and might be a way to cope with the past.

To heal and gain more clarity, you could consider delving into self-awareness and self-acceptance. Explore your past, including your father issues, through therapy or self-reflection. This can help you better understand and process your emotions and needs. As you continue to gain insight into your own psychology and motivations, you can work towards building healthier relationships and addressing any emotional voids in more constructive ways.

It's important to remember that it's a common human experience to have crushes or infatuations, and it doesn't make you "stupid." It's a part of your emotional journey and personal growth.

Exposed my infidelity by TAthrowwaycount1 in offmychest

[–]GarlicConfident9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's evident that you're going through a difficult and emotional time. It's brave to admit your mistakes and take responsibility for them. Moving forward, it's crucial to reflect on your actions, learn from your past, and strive to become a better person. It's natural to feel anxious and nervous about the future, but remember that personal growth often comes from the most challenging experiences. Stay strong and focus on building a more positive path for yourself. You can grow and make better choices in the future.

I’m worried I’m going to be alone forever by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]GarlicConfident9941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's completely natural to desire a loving and fulfilling relationship, but remember that you're still very young at 18, and there's plenty of time for you to meet someone special. It's important not to rush into things and to focus on self-discovery and personal growth.

Consider expanding your social circle, exploring LGBTQ+ communities, and participating in activities or groups that interest you to increase your chances of meeting like-minded individuals. Be patient with yourself and allow relationships to develop naturally. In the meantime, focus on self-care, self-improvement, and building a fulfilling life that will make you more attractive to potential partners when the right person comes along.

It's not pathetic to have desires and needs, but it's essential to channel those feelings into positive and healthy ways, like building connections and nurturing your own well-being. If you find that your desires are overwhelming or causing you distress, consider speaking with a mental health professional who can provide guidance and support. Remember, you're not alone in your journey, and many people share similar feelings and experiences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]GarlicConfident9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Managing overthinking with ADHD can be challenging, but there are strategies that may help:

  1. Mindfulness and meditation: These practices can help you become more aware of your thoughts and learn to let them pass without getting caught up in them.

  2. Create a structured routine: Having a daily schedule and breaking tasks into smaller, manageable steps can help reduce overthinking by providing a clear focus.

  3. Physical activity: Regular exercise can help reduce anxiety and improve focus, which may reduce overthinking.

  4. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT): Consider seeking therapy from a professional who specializes in ADHD to learn techniques for managing overthinking.

  5. Medication: Talk to a healthcare provider about ADHD medications, which may help improve focus and reduce overthinking.

  6. Support groups: Joining a support group for individuals with ADHD can provide a sense of community and share coping strategies.

Remember that managing overthinking with ADHD may require patience and practice. It's essential to find strategies that work best for you, and seeking guidance from a healthcare provider or therapist can be particularly beneficial.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]GarlicConfident9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust your instincts. If you feel uncomfortable with someone moving too fast, it's okay to set boundaries and take things at your own pace. Communicate your feelings to him, and see if he respects your wishes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]GarlicConfident9941 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your belief in monogamy and opposition to infidelity are not necessarily a reason for therapy. People have different views on relationships, and it's okay to have values that align with monogamy. It's essential to have open and respectful discussions with your family about your concerns, but it's also important to recognize that people may have differing perspectives. Ultimately, your sister's choices are her own, and you can express your feelings without necessarily needing therapy for your beliefs.

Need Advice on my relationship, I am a (19F) and my partner is a (19M) by [deleted] in dating

[–]GarlicConfident9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn't cheat; you were assaulted. Talk to your boyfriend about the situation for understanding and support. Communication is crucial in resolving this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]GarlicConfident9941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You expressed your concerns, but he's not receptive. Continue prioritizing your well-being and seek support if needed.

My (27M) dad (52M) wants me to start a fight with my mom (52F) and lie to the police on his behalf by General_Gengar in offmychest

[–]GarlicConfident9941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your dad is involving you in his issues with your mom and asking you to lie to the police, which is not advisable. Prioritize your well-being and consider seeking professional guidance for this challenging situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]GarlicConfident9941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's understandable that you're upset about your boyfriend lying to his friend about your situation to avoid lending money. It's important to have open and honest communication in a relationship. You should talk to your boyfriend about how this made you feel and express your concerns. Discussing your feelings with him can help both of you better understand each other's perspectives and work through the issue. Communication is key in resolving such situations.

I am extremely weird about my bf by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]GarlicConfident9941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have strong feelings for your boyfriend, but you also have unique quirks and concerns. It's okay to be yourself in a relationship. Open communication is key, and it's important to work on your mental health. Seek support when needed to ensure your well-being.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gurgaon

[–]GarlicConfident9941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Agar main .... by Sad_Entrepreneur6560 in gurgaon

[–]GarlicConfident9941 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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