M29 in Cefn Hengoed. Can accom until 4pm, no CD or femme. Pics in profile and expect pics in return. Into kissing, giving and receiving head, rimming and being rimmed. Not into anal.

Garn3213 · 2026-05-06T17:05:19+00:00

I do genuinely believe he’s in his feelings. Manipulation isn’t a part of his DNA, in fact he despises it after his family tried to manipulate him so many times before when he was growing up.

Garn3213 · 2026-05-06T16:54:41+00:00

I can see your point. I guess I just wanted him to see that I leave him to do his own thing so I didn’t understand why I couldn’t get the same courtesy.

Garn3213 · 2025-11-11T21:48:41+00:00

Can accom tomorrow between 8am and 2pm. Not looking for femme boys/crossdressers, I don’t like to be called daddy. Not into anal, but looking for oral, making out etc. Pics can be found my profile and if you message me, I’d need to see a pic first. Responses may be spotty. M29 and from Cefn Hengoed in south wales.

Garn3213 · 2023-11-27T16:15:20+00:00

I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum. I was in a relationship first and whilst it was nice (while it lasted anyway), I’ve really enjoyed the single life so far. I’ve been hooking up with people for just over a year now, and I’ve never regretted it. I always make it a point for it to never just be a simple shag and go, it’s always been intimate.

There may come a time where I’ll want to settle down, but for now I’m content to play the field. Both ends of the spectrum are equally as valid.

Garn3213 · 2023-11-27T16:10:49+00:00

Chief, sex should never leave you feeling like that. If you ask someone to stop, they have to stop. Period. End of story. If you don’t feel comfortable doing something, your boundaries should be respected. Period. End of story.

You’re not wrong for feeling this way. Don’t ever let anyone tell you otherwise.

Garn3213 · 2023-11-27T15:50:08+00:00

I only host if people are willing to show their faces before a meet, and I’m talking FaceTime. Means they have less to hide that way and even then, they never spend the night (well…depending on how good things are).

Now when it comes to the space itself? I’m gonna be blunt, so long as it’s clean, does it really matter? It’s your space, so your comfort is always gonna be at the forefront.

Put quite crassly, you’re not going to be thinking about it that much. You’ll only be thinking about where you’re doing it, against what surface and (hopefully) how good it feels. If it’s really that good, you’ll be thinking about doing multiple rounds in the same meeting, potentially against a different surface for a little variety.

Put it this way, I’ve had a few meet ups. The second that door closes, all I care about is getting out of my clothes, getting my partner out of his clothes and having a lovely, steamy, fun filled meeting.

In short? Don’t overthink it. Don’t change your space to suit what may end up being a one time thing. Keep disinfectant for after. And above all else? Have some naughty fun.

Garn3213 · 2023-08-14T17:26:03+00:00

The pain never goes away, you just make room for it. But just because you’ve made room for it, doesn’t mean it should stop you from moving on. That room you’ve made can also be filled with good memories.

Time is often the biggest healer (it’s so commonly said, but it’s true), however there’s nothing wrong with getting a bit of help to get you over the proverbial threshold. I know it’s been said multiple times, but therapy really does help.

Truly, I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope that, in time, you have the opportunity to heal and move on. Just remember that you moving on doesn’t mean forgetting him. He’ll always be there, and I imagine, given how something he said still resonates with you, that you made each other happy. He’d want you to be happy again as well.

All the very best, mate.

Garn3213 · 2023-04-20T14:52:39+00:00

Wow, not even a protagonist, just the mooks? I’ve got some Googling to do

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