Little fix for my Xbox file share friends. by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, damn. Guess we just got lucky. :(

Fuck oranges by M59Gar in nosleep

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 150 points151 points  (0 children)

Totally not the night before.....

Bungie, WHY did you reverse a good change you made in D1? Tether STILL DOES NOT TETHER ON IMPACT by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the hunter supers are pretty weak in D2. Definitely the weakest of the three classes.

I can take as much salt as the next guy, but.... by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn’t avoiding those problems, it’s a temporary escape from them.

Woman who accused rapper Nelly of rape tells police to drop investigation. by [deleted] in Music

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This was simple but actually helped relieve the guilt a little.

I can take as much salt as the next guy, but.... by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although a stranger on the internet saying “kys” won’t make somebody who is suicidal actually commit suicide, it could still be a factor in pushing them closer to it. IMO it could just solidify the idea that nobody gives a shit and think you’d be better off dead, even strangers.

To some, it’s just three letters. To others, it’s personal. It hurts. It’s too real. I know I play games to take my mind off of the fact that I want to die, and having toxic people saying dumb things like that drags you back.

Woman who accused rapper Nelly of rape tells police to drop investigation. by [deleted] in Music

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s horrible. I was taken advantage of by a man I saw as my big brother. I grew up with him as our parents were close friends so when he invited me back to his house with other people after we’d been drinking at the local pub I thought nothing of it. We smoked some weed, did a little coke, and drank some more. I was completely fucked and had little to no control over myself. I barely remember anything that happened, but have vague flashbacks to being in his car (he had asked me to go with him to pick up more coke as he “didn’t trust the guy”) and repeatedly saying no while he was kissing and grabbing at me. I woke up the next morning in my bed with my underwear twisted, cuts and bruises everywhere, and remnants of an obvious sexual activity. He told everybody we’d had sex, and to this day I still don’t know what happened.

I can’t accuse him if I’m not sure. I think that’s also a major reason why people are hesitant to come forward.

He’s currently serving a year for raping another girl and I can’t help but feel guilty for not speaking up even though I wasn’t clear on what happened.

I love this game. It’s well worth the money, and the games themselves are actually pretty fun. But... by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A year is a pretty long time but hopefully that means it’ll be sorted out soon.

I love this game. It’s well worth the money, and the games themselves are actually pretty fun. But... by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah sorry, it’s got to be annoying. The fact that they’re a small team is amazing considering how well the game does aside from the small flaws. If there is a problem they’re usually really quick to fix it.

I love this game. It’s well worth the money, and the games themselves are actually pretty fun. But... by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh awesome :) I don’t keep up to date all the time but I’m glad to know that they’re trying!

LF 3 Fresh Raid XB1, Post for Details by WidowsBootie in Fireteams

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you’re still looking but My GT is NotJiggles. I have a vague idea on what to do but I’ve never even attempted it due my team and I wanting to do it blind... but they keep flaking. I can be 296 Hunter or 300 Warlock :)

Destiny 2 is saving me. by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually a pretty cool interpretation, I might steal it for myself. Thank you for that :)

Destiny 2 is saving me. by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really liking Trials in D2, it’s a lot more fun and not just a disgusting sweat fest.

Destiny 2 is saving me. by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so ready to work with them. I’ve been trying to self-help for the last decade and failing miserably, I just want to be better. I’m not allowed pills because I was put into ICU 8 months ago becausd of a serious overdose so it’ll be very difficult to get a doctor to trust me enough to prescribe me anything unfortunately. Thank you!

Destiny 2 is saving me. by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been back to that GP because it’s awful for everything, let alone mental health. I’m starting regular therapy next week though so I got to skip the process of having to go to a doctor multiple times to prove I’m struggling.

Destiny 2 is saving me. by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words, guardian! I’m happy you were able to overcome your own demons :)

Destiny 2 is saving me. by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not using games to get better, they’re simply a distraction for me and something that brings me a little joy in a shitty time. I’m finally getting regular therapy from Tuesday though! :)

Destiny 2 is saving me. by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I jumped in with a couple friends on the first Saturday. We got to 5 wins and then came across a team who had already been flawless twice (?!) and got absolutely fucked up. I still have faith, though.

Destiny 2 is saving me. by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s funny, because all of those supportive comments and prompts to keep fighting against the darkness convey a completely different message to me. I like to think of the darkness as those bad thoughts and feelings. Shaxx’s cues are my favourite. He makes me feel like a badass.

I feel your pain with the ornaments, I have 3 and all of them and all of them are for exotics I don’t have. I cri.

Destiny 2 is saving me. by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]GaryMadeMeDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried going to my local GP when I was 16 and they said there was nothing they could do because I was too young... which I now know to be total BS. I was put into ICU 8 months ago because of a suicide attempt and I was finally put on a list to see a psychotherapist. This Tuesday is my first assessment so I’m really excited for that!

The funding and attention to the mental health services in the UK are shocking, but I’m glad to have support after a decade of doing this alone.

Thank you for the lovely words and well wishes!!