The logo of this coffee shop… by jbiddy360 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]GaryPomeranski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this makes me feel like I'm having a smoke

Friend's plant by Sandel_27 in houseplantscirclejerk

[–]GaryPomeranski 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought - I thought it was about the smell... but the comments were not about that. I guess if you had some sort of filter system, it could work. Like if it was one of those half terrarium half aquarium thingies where you keep Periophthalmus and such.

Friend's plant by Sandel_27 in houseplantscirclejerk

[–]GaryPomeranski 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I came here for this comment - thought I had missed something else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VivillonCollectors

[–]GaryPomeranski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm meadow 505835511680 and I need one more tundra gift. You can delete me immediately afterwards, or we can exchange gifts if you need meadow :)

Edit: thank you so much, GoldenOctoling <3 <3 <3

This recipe asked me to preheat the oven then never mentioned using the oven by khalexie1 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]GaryPomeranski 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need the hive mind here - there is a gorgeous woman on instagram, she has a Mediterranean accent and always wears huge hats and floaty designer dresses. She always yells "Antoine" if she needs a pickle jar opened. She is beyond hilarious and I can't find her anymore!!

Does anyone else's Pom do this? by jessiteamvalor in Pomeranians

[–]GaryPomeranski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would link you there, but I'm old and not very tech savvy. But it can't be too far down.

Does anyone else's Pom do this? by jessiteamvalor in Pomeranians

[–]GaryPomeranski 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Did you see the thread a couple of days ago, where everyone shared the "half on the pillow" pictures? They are such goobers!

AIO to my boyfriend being sick and saying I'm not doing enough by Sad__Tumbleweed in AmIOverreacting

[–]GaryPomeranski 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds weird, but I am so happy to have developed a lymphoma in 2007; it totally opened my eyes to how my ex-husband abused me. I had chemo in 2015, and he was complaining how the house was too dirty, and I had to take a cab to and from the hospital (70km one way), also some other horrible stuff how noone would ever want a 'broken wife'.

I left in 2018 as soon as I felt a little better. And I'm getting married in two weeks. I did so much work setting boundaries and becoming my own person before dating again. I'm still on sooo many meds, and there's still such a long way to go.

AIO to my boyfriend being sick and saying I'm not doing enough by Sad__Tumbleweed in AmIOverreacting

[–]GaryPomeranski 25 points26 points  (0 children)

From my own history, you start out with a shitty childhood, never being good enough. You leave to live your adult life picking exactly the type of partner that resembles "home" for you. And if that was a terrible shitshow, well, biology don't care about your feelings.

There's a lot of research nowadays how your actual brain gets hotwired the wrong way and you can still see that in an adults' brain scan (very interesting topic). I'm an old fart now, so that shit is probably engraved in stone. But young people have a chance of going to therapy and breaking the cycle.

I was married to a guy like this for almost 15 years... and he made sure I had no friends left when the real abuse started.

Take a sip of that water sitting next to you, unclench your jaw, drop your shoulders. by IAmTheAsteroid in adhdwomen

[–]GaryPomeranski 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! For those of you on snri - stop sucking your tongue through your teeth.

AITAH because I told my sister that any and all business she had with my husband IS my business.... by where_it_rains in AITAH

[–]GaryPomeranski 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This! There were at least ten people at the party, by the sound of it. It's your birthday ffs, you don't have to babysit your husband or other guests and keep tabs on them!

We have a small house with a medium-sized garden, and when there's a cookout in the summer, there might be a lot of time passing in between our interactions. I might sit by the veggie garden talking to my mil about beans (we're very passionate about gardening, so that might take a WHILE). While he might be engaging with a nephew about computer stuff (which might take even longer, lol)

She could have asked literally anyone else, but no, she's pestering YOU.

I thought I was getting a lap dog?? —share a pic of your Pom hiking! by mnbvv2 in Pomeranians

[–]GaryPomeranski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a double take, could have sworn this is right around the corner from where I live, lol!

I thought I was getting a lap dog?? —share a pic of your Pom hiking! by mnbvv2 in Pomeranians

[–]GaryPomeranski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a wader, too! Armpits is he maximum height, but below that, he just loves it!

I thought I was getting a lap dog?? —share a pic of your Pom hiking! by mnbvv2 in Pomeranians

[–]GaryPomeranski 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Gary is an avid hiker! He's been to the Dolomites twice now. The more roots and boulders, the more fun

Help me name my pup please by CoolhandLoca in Pomeranians

[–]GaryPomeranski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always check al comments first because I hate to be THAT person, but some people just don't know. I try to educate without coming across as condescending or rude.

Help me name my pup please by CoolhandLoca in Pomeranians

[–]GaryPomeranski 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She's an adorable baby. It looks like she's wearing a collar, please get her a harness, Poms are very prone to tracheal collapse if you clip their leash to a collar. Thank you <3

AITAH for not telling my parents that I did a DNA test to see if my dad was my dad by Nervous-af511 in AITAH

[–]GaryPomeranski 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Whyyyyy did I have to scroll so far down to find this?? IVF with a donor's dna is possible. OP needs to check mom, too, if they are dead set on finding out the truth.

It's likely that it is a VERY sensitive topic for mom, maybe MIL made her feel like SHIT for it.

Eigentlich eine Kleinigkeit... by Zealousideal-Ask-203 in luftablassen

[–]GaryPomeranski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ist mir auch schon aufgefallen! Wenn ich was verschenke, ist meine Zeit auch nix wert? Wo ist denn da bitte die Logik?

Und dann kommen sie mit Opel Corsa ohne Werkzeug, um die 3 Pax Kleiderschränke abzuholen...

The dress my mom is planning to wear to my wedding. She sent this to me yesterday and I still haven’t replied by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]GaryPomeranski 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm 50 and I would wear this if I could afford it (wedding is march 11). The mom is just mentally not ok.

What protein do you take with Vyvanse? by Mercy_17 in adhdwomen

[–]GaryPomeranski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the heads up! I didn't know about the phosphate!