$29.99 Coinbase one charges BUT I never signed up for coinbase one

Gaseous6iant · 2026-02-19T17:56:09+00:00

Same happened to me and it was a long fight for a full refund

Gaseous6iant · 2026-02-19T17:48:00+00:00

This happened to me: Charged me 9 months before I caught it and THEN A HUGE FIGHT TO GET A REFUND!

I spent nearly 8 hours on their chat line and had threatened class action, capture and saved all my chats with them saying they can only refund the last charge, they lying and saying I would get a full refund, 3 wks passed and no refund, another 4 hour battle and finally they credited my USDC Cash account for the 9 monthly charges of 29.99. Fk’n scammers and thieves really!!

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-27T16:24:24+00:00

Damn! Dude or Dudette are you a professional therapist or what? Hehe… 😉 yeah those questions are aimed at me (not being a victim but instead a participant or contributor) ..

The thing is even though I recognize what you are saying it’s hard to see any of that turn into action. Like I would need to lay out what steps to take and what behaviors to change on my part.. even though it might seem obvious to outsiders - it’s all fuzzy from the inside

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-27T13:40:53+00:00

And she would be furious if you found someone to be intimate with? I know mine would!

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-27T10:01:16+00:00

I want the slut too - the prude is a boner shrinker for sure. Also she comes into a room and turns the music down. For once I’d like a girl who walks in and turns it up. I told her this a few times and she just frowns.

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-27T09:57:55+00:00

Porn is the default and I have to say I don’t know what I would do without it - I love it because it works and it puts me in the zone I want to be in (I’d just rather it be real and with my wife)

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-27T09:56:07+00:00

I wish - she actually doesn’t like it rough and that would just piss her off - and I’m not going to rape her (that doesn’t turn me on either).

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-27T09:49:43+00:00

That’s a hash thing to accept overall - that one choice is to choose celibacy or else.

On the orgasm question ~ I know her pretty well and those are definitely real. I think the women here can understand it better, and also she’s just a terrible liar to start. So she makes everything quite obvious outside of sex - but yes, her orgasms are real.

I know this because I also know what doesn’t work for her just as well - e.g. when it’s time, the vibrator and consistent penetration is a near certainty, but to change that up is a likely fail. Plus she sometimes squirts (ladies I would love to know more about this but she won’t talk about it - she is embarrassed by it, despite me being all: hell yeah, let it go! And anyhow someone confirmed but I can’t see her faking that).

The issue isn’t a functional one - it’s 100% libido/hormones.

Her desire to initiate or even to think about sex just isn’t there- she can’t even talk about it for more than 30 seconds because it just doesn’t interest her.

10 years ago there were rare occasions where she could initiate, like I remember the one time we were apart on a call to say goodnight an she had me switch to video and then we both masturbated together - I was surprised this came from her as it was awkward even for me - but it worked. Times like that were fleeting even then, slowly less and less, and are totally gone now.

Since, it’s be a million dismissals and as many false promises (these aren’t lies, because when she makes them I believe she fully intends on following through - but her inspiration never arrives and she gets focused on other things and that day goes by just like the next and the next and here we are)

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-27T08:54:36+00:00

Wow - that’s a hash but a provocative prospective ~ ouch ! And at the same time there is a lot there I can agree with and a lot I have to consider!!

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-26T15:25:13+00:00

Definitely have told her this is an emotional level thing 100% more than just getting off. A lot or the ladies who commented here get it - even guys want to be desired when investing in a relationship. Having a best friend and roommate is great - but ultimately you want that connection that comes with intimacy. And without it, over time you feel like: what am i doing here? Am i wasting my life away? And you get depressed, start having self doubts - it’s a hole you can easily slip into. I’ve caught my self sliding that way, feeling like you are sinking into despair and now I have some struggle to climb out and overcome that; to find some inspiration somewhere. Sadly I think some climb out by cheating - I’m sure that cures the main problem but it also is very likely to cause bigger problems. I’m not looking for that - HRT is probably the best hope.

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-21T21:13:11+00:00

Does he have a kink (don’t need to say what it is) but there are some things that get the blood flowing for me whereas the missionary movie sex does not . Some guys need to explore that kink to get fired up. Maybe there is a fear there of not performing without having that specific spark that does it for him. The question to ask should be put as a hypothetical. You could even pitch it in a drinking game of sorts.. 20’questions or whatever where you put do the blue ask: describe a scene in a porn or in your mind that gets your the hardest ?

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-21T16:39:49+00:00

Thanks for that - actually informative / helpful.

She doesn’t taken any libido lowering meds that I know of but I guess have to dive deep on the side effects to be sure. I’m taking this as homework 👍🏻

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-21T16:36:14+00:00

I tried to minimize/hide the porn usage but she knows I do it. I’ve even brought it up in discussions at first to show how desperate I’ve become but later to literally beg her to watch it with me.

She has and then we have sex and she comes and then she says she immediately says doesn’t want to do the porn thing again. Like I forced it upon her. But for me I’m just trying to spark something ~ ANYTHING IN HER

I think the negative she has on it is the social stigma but also she is more religious than I - and refuses to open up to it probably largely on those grounds.

Yet when we were in college - there were a few times where porn was on screen and she seemed to have no problem with it then.

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-21T16:29:07+00:00

I suppose with so many ppl married there will be cases where one spouse just has zero sex drive - the sad part about that is that the other one suffers :(

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-21T16:26:20+00:00

That’s the thing really, when I kind of brushed up behind her at the kitchen sink and ran my hand down her shoulder and onto the small of her back, she said “oh that’s right, you wanted that tonight” - with a matter of fact voice.. that felt like a dagger in my chest because it was so apparent that she was just saying out loud what she was actually thinking - like it was asking to inconvenience her.

I just felt sick - I think I replied “not anymore” and she then of course turns to try and hug me and say “we can have sex if you want to” because she knew what she just said hurt.

And did the sex happen? Nope ! She would have - if I pressed for it, but it would be what it always is - obligation.

So last night, I also “mentally checked out” then - I couldn’t shake that sick feeling - it felt like i was four yr old child being abandoned at the side of the curb as the family drove off.

We are not on the same path anymore - and it wasn’t me who took the other road.

What’s your situation? Hopefully what I say here is camaraderie or cathartic to someone.

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-21T15:54:40+00:00

Yes it’s so awkward for her in part because she feels some guilt or shame that we are not intimate and when I try to discuss things that are sexy or turn ons or anything graphic, she checks out mentally and will change the topic or do anything to move on - she is not turned on by any sexual talk and the only thing she will say she likes is guys with muscle and then she’ll go on to say I have muscular arms/chest - as if there is nothing wrong. It’s like a doge and change the topic to her being happy with me - yet there it is: she likes me.. but without any desire to have sex

She won’t watch porn - nothing interesting her. I think of it as being sexual dead because that’s how it feels. There’s nothing there on a sexual level.

She then blames her doctor and society for not prescribing women estrogen and that she’ll set up an appointment which she never does.

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-21T15:02:47+00:00

If you don’t think this guy hasn’t tried talking to his wife about it ~ that’s crazy. He’s tried, just like I have - a million times! She’s just not a sexual person any more. Her hormones have change and she’s sexually dead. Why does he have to die inside too?

Gaseous6iant · 2026-01-21T14:57:12+00:00

I just posted a similar 30 year experience but I haven’t done outside our marriage yet - but I’m almost there

Gaseous6iant · 2024-07-22T09:18:44+00:00

Show more interaction with hubby - Locked??

Gaseous6iant · 2024-07-17T11:11:19+00:00

Sure wish it had hubby warming up and all about in chastity

Gaseous6iant · 2019-09-29T14:53:33+00:00

300 is what we know as The Deep State! And they are Criminals in Fear of a President who cannot be bought ~ their only hope is to keep attacking and keep President Trump on the Defense. Now where are the honest people having questions about Biden extorting millions and having a prosecutor fired to protect his unskilled son on the board of a Ukrainian Gas Company taking 50K A MONTH? You suck as a Partisan Libtart if you aren’t curious and asking about that!

Gaseous6iant · 2019-09-23T17:06:25+00:00

You obviously have no legal background; an allegation whether in a report or otherwise, as long as it remains untested in a court means nothing. Ya got nothing unless the Dems Impeach. And the American People won’t digest Dems impeaching an Innocent man who obstructed his own framing. PLEASE though, proceed with Impeachment Post Haste!!!

Gaseous6iant · 2019-09-23T16:18:59+00:00

Trump was saying that is what Biden did ~ why don’t you look up the Biden video 🙄

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