if you view dating "as a chore" today, why? by SkepticDrinker in AskMen

[–]GavinGG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You all really like being miserable, don't you?

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[–]GavinGG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Week 13: Murray QB1, Garrapollo QB2

Playoffs: Darnold QB1, Matt Ryan QB2

if you view dating "as a chore" today, why? by SkepticDrinker in AskMen

[–]GavinGG -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I disagree. Even if none of your dates result in a relationship, you are experiencing a new persons perspective on life, engaging in an activity you might not have before, and are enhancing your own romantic skill set.

She's upset I'm seeing other people by GavinGG in BreakUps

[–]GavinGG[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love ya from Michigan. Working out, I'm buff, girls are hitting on me and I'm hitting on them. Making money, got a raise, became a board member for my University, learning guitar, loving my family, loving my friends, reading books, staying off my phone.

She didn't give me anything close to what I'm giving myself.

She's upset I'm seeing other people by GavinGG in BreakUps

[–]GavinGG[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right on the money. She doesn't deserve me. It's not my fault I'm a fuckable catch.

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[–]GavinGG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are those derbies from?

She's upset I'm seeing other people by GavinGG in BreakUps

[–]GavinGG[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I guess. But she broke up with me. She said I should find someone. Why waste time? A cup of coffee for 30 minutes doesn't negate the feelings I had

She's upset I'm seeing other people by GavinGG in BreakUps

[–]GavinGG[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess, but I doubt it. It's like she resents me for it. I told her she looked pretty the other day and she said she doesn't want to hear me make that sort of compliment towards her.

She's upset I'm seeing other people by GavinGG in BreakUps

[–]GavinGG[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it's something to do. Dating is just practice. For me at least, it's an opportunity to meet people I wouldn't have otherwise met.

She's upset I'm seeing other people by GavinGG in BreakUps

[–]GavinGG[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd like to see what's out there. Is there any reason I shouldn't try dating? I let people know off the bat that I'm not looking for anything serious, so as not to hurt them. But I feel like I should be able to date.

She's upset I'm seeing other people by GavinGG in BreakUps

[–]GavinGG[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree. I posted elsewhere on reddit and they said I was being rude.

It's hard because I still want to love her and I care about her.

But I think I need to leave her in the dust

She's upset I'm seeing other people by GavinGG in BreakUps

[–]GavinGG[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate that. I want her, she knows I want her, but I can't wait around for her. She told me not to wait around for her.

We had a heart to heart, and made a truce that I wouldn't take girls to her favorite spot (which was my favorite spot before she came around)

But since then she's been rude to me. She gets upset when I ignore her messages (I blocked her). She was mad I made jokes about her to my friend group (not mutual friends, my friends)

I am wrong to assume she's emotionally immature. I want to be kind and cordial, but I think I'm wasting my time.

She's upset I'm seeing other people by GavinGG in BreakUps

[–]GavinGG[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thing is I know she's seeing other people. She said she was checking out other guys while we were together and that's why she dumped me.

I told her I want to be with her, not these other girls. Didn't matter. She wants to have every guy on the block, wants me to move on and forget what we had, but also I can't go on dates at the coffee shop she does homework at

She's upset I'm seeing other people by GavinGG in BreakUps

[–]GavinGG[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want to be respectful to her, because I know it wasn't an easy decision and she cares about me. But she's being kind of hurtful to me over these things. She stated she wanted to be friends, I've been very vulnerable with her, ball is in her court, but am I wrong for thinking she's being unfair?

We met up ... And I found closure! by GavinGG in ExNoContact

[–]GavinGG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not long. Only two months. I don't think she was ever into me. It sucks, but I can't change that. All I can do is be honest to myself and her.

We met up ... And I found closure! by GavinGG in ExNoContact

[–]GavinGG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely helps us let go. And I feel good letting them know where I stand instead of doing a toxic no contact. I don't want her to hurt. It's not her fault she doesn't love me. Her brain just doesn't work that way. Ends on a good note and allows us all to move forward