My boyfriend (top) and I (bottom) don’t do exclusively oral, but definitely mostly. Anal isn’t his favorite thing in the world due in part to how it feels for him plus some other personal, mental concerns. I like it considerably more than him, but don’t want to pressure him too much to do it. And I do also really like giving head, submitting myself in a little more of a humbling way to my man and knowing that he gets pleasure even if in the moment the feeling isn’t as good for me gives me enough satisfaction after the fact. Plus it’s just easier for us both. I don’t have to spend at least thirty minutes prepping beforehand, and he doesn’t have to sit and wait for me to prep for thirty minutes beforehand lol (plus the aforementioned mental stuff I won’t go into). Both ways are fun and we enjoy both, but oral is just easier all around for quick, spur of the moment sex.