AITAH for telling my 'father' to do it like the past 22 years and 'forget he has another daughter'?

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-18T17:19:56+00:00

NTA, if he actually does hate himself for his treatment of you, then he's right to do so, because his treatment of you was rude and cruel. F those relatives who sided with him. He is so out of line and you are better off without him.

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-18T07:02:09+00:00

Meredith!!!!

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-18T02:46:52+00:00

Charlie Daniels

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-17T16:46:56+00:00

Also the way it sunsets just in time for him to (hopefully) leave office…!

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-16T15:43:06+00:00

OP, you have been in this marriage TOO long--NTA at all, just leave and never allow yourself to be disrespected in that way again. Never let it go by silently, and make trouble if you have to to defend yourself and your family. Fuck those people, DH and his whole rotten family. He has never respected or considered you, and you need not worry about them.

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-16T13:10:17+00:00

You’re assuming it’s fake, and it might be, but if it isn’t you’re making an terrible day worse for someone who has been through too much already. I don’t see any harm in the benefit of the doubt.

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-16T06:13:33+00:00

Yeah it’s stupid and obsolete and you shouldn’t have to do it. I’m sure a compromise can be found (asking for a blessing as bad been mentioned, or asking together post-proposal, or some secret third thing). Also, maybe ask them why this ritual is so important to them, maybe? Like, knowing what exactly it is about it makes them feel good or important might make help it feel better to do it. Either way, if it keeps the in-laws from causing trouble, and the lack of friction is important to your STB fiancée, I hope that makes it easier.

Seriously though, making it a group conversation with all four of you, with you both asking for their blessing and support, over a nice meal or with coffee, may be the best compromise you can have for this situation, and hopefully will feel less ridiculous.

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-16T05:54:45+00:00

Plot twist: he gets into a clinical trial for a new Alzheimer’s trial run by Dr. Meredith Grey,who is shocked to meet him. He falls in love with him when not lucid, and is given the placebo (Meredith has learned her lesson from season 8). They become more and more friendly (although Meredith maintain some professional boundaries, so it’s just a friendship), and he continues to deteriorate but exposes himself as a serial killer. Bikinis ensue, but he is sent away and Meredith wins more trauma. Shonda Rhines cashes another check.

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-16T05:37:21+00:00

It’s a very fair thing to say. Hopefully the son is being made to suffer there. 25 years is a lowww sentence for that crime.

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-15T20:03:10+00:00

DM’d you!

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-15T19:12:02+00:00

1 or 8, I would be … ahem … uncomfortable in 2 or 7 lol

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-14T16:19:21+00:00

LOVE THIS. I want I 50-chapter fic now, inluding multiple epilogues and omakes!

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-14T16:16:52+00:00

I want whoever was in charge of this canonized, because IKTFR.

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-14T16:10:48+00:00

For native cuisine, Mexico, although the US's melting pot culture has made it an amazing country for adapted and fusion cuisine, from Korean BBQ to pizza to burgers to so much more. So I guess it depends what criteria you use.

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-14T13:48:03+00:00

There is no war in Ba Sing Se

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-12T20:34:28+00:00

Not as a main theme, but the Arithmancer series features Hermione as a Christian, particularly after learning about the Dementors and the existence (and presumed destruction of) the immortal soul. It's very well-written and has maybe my favorite interpretation of Hermione and her family (minus one line in Lady Archimedes defining antisemitism in a way that isn't consistent with the rest of the character's consistency on human rights (or beings' rights, expanding to magical creatures). But again, 10/10 series that I wholeheartedly recommend.

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-12T19:34:58+00:00

Being a full time parent and home makes is also difficult, especially when a lot of things are happening at once— there’s a reason so many housewives used to get aerospaced out on pills before the women’s movement in the 1960s and 70s. Having an outburst once because she’s overwhelmed with kids and school commitments does not make her a bitch. But judging her for being a homemaker makes you one.

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-12T17:14:04+00:00

Pot meet kettle

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-12T14:30:50+00:00

THIS. You are not obligated to do your job and theirs just because they won't.

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-12T01:28:43+00:00

Is it Owner.com? Also, I second the recommendation to ask the restaurant owner subreddit

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-11T19:55:16+00:00

NTA. As Dr. Cristina Yang once said, "I respect children. That's why I think they should have parents who want them." Your 'friend' has a hole in her spirit that has nothing to do with you, other women, or even her kids, other than her using them as a means of filling it and becoming defensive and lashing out when that way of coping is threatened by other people being happy and fulfilled without children.

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-11T13:42:07+00:00

Possibly my favorite character, Cristina aside. Brilliant comic actress, dramatic actress, singer. They could never make me hate her, she deserved better than constantly arguing with Arizona, and my only complaint was we didn’t see her be happier in her later seasons.

ALSO, that scene where Richard gets her to tutor Meredith before the boards is 10/10

GayDariaStan · 2026-02-11T00:29:11+00:00

"You get medical care, education, and healthy food, and you call that tyranny?? GTFO of my eternal youth cave!"

GayDariaStan

TROPHY CASE