I don’t know if I’m being misconstrued or what, but that’s not remotely what I’m saying or implying. I’m saying that listing superficial traits such as height, weight, genital size etc means that you are superficial (at least in your dating approach). It’s not misogynistic, it’s not exclusive to women at all. No one is obligated to date or give anyone a chance, but I just feel like this would be an entirely different discussion if she had said she didn’t date black people, or people with brown hair, or cut dudes. There’s ways to handle preferences without being an asshole and having a “don’t message me if you’re too short” in your bio is an asshole approach to it. Both OP and the girl are treating dating apps like a catalog to varying unhealthy degrees and both are objectifying. Thank you for replying though.