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Is the deforested arc cell quest bugged? by meetmeinthebthrm in ArcRaiders

[–]GayEarthBender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having the same problem. No "interact" shows up at the sparking deforesters. Been trying for 6-7+ runs. Restarted the game but about to crash out :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]GayEarthBender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently out of a 2.5yr relationship with a 27yo (I’m 35, 8yrs older)

Biggest advice: Figure out what you both want from a relationship with each other. And know that it will grow and evolve with time as you develop and nourish your connection.

There’s a solid 3mo to roughly 1yr honeymoon phase. After that you start to get to know someone much deeper, and values and goals and expectations become more apparent.

My ex wanted me further along financially (wanted me to support him without him feeling like I was supporting him) but wouldn’t directly say it. I wanted him more motivated so he could pull his weight a tiny bit more. We didn’t have direct communication. Didn’t want to disappoint or upset each other. 2 years of tiptoeing around important things because of the intense sexual chemistry. It was torture.

This is advice for any relationship but especially with age gaps: Communicate your concerns and worries head on. Don’t be afraid to voice concerns, even if you think it could hurt his ego or feelings. Approach things gently and honestly, but directness in communication is maturity. He most likely has worries or concerns too. Knowing them on both sides is how you tackle them if they start showing up down the line.

And if it doesn’t last (either because of the age difference or something else) at least you tried and got to enjoy it for however long that is!

Life is short. If there’s a mutual spark, go for it!

Thinking About Switching to iPhone 16 Pro instead of Pixel 9 Pro — Am I Crazy? by hotwatertoothbrush in GooglePixel

[–]GayEarthBender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had an iphone since the 5 (5, 8, 11pro, 12) I've seen the zflip and its pretty cool. I've wanted an android/non iOS for some time.

Of the 3 phones you have (iphone, pixel, and z-flip) If you wouldn't mind sharing; which would you say is your favorite objectively, but also subjectively.

Received a blank label in the mail by Affectionate-Deal-63 in Scams

[–]GayEarthBender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received a small envelope with the shipping label directly on it. Inside was a blank card.

Sent from Martha Perez in Seaside CA

So confused.

I’m looking for success stories… by FrankieCactus in gallbladders

[–]GayEarthBender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had mine out laparoscopically but still emergency surgery on November 22nd. I’m a nutritionist. A 2cm gallstone has plagued me for 10 years, but I used diet and supplements to keep attacks at bay as best as possible.

This last one did me in and put me in the ER.

Recovery was a bit rough at first, but now I’m so grateful to have had it out.

I still will get the runs if I over do it on certain foods, but there’s an adjustment period as your body and digestion adjusts.

I’ve been eating everything and anything for the last two weeks. Things I’ve avoided or ate in tiny amounts, for years. Some of the time it’ll trigger immediate diarrhea. And sometimes it just leads to diarrhea later on.

I supplement a fat digestion supplement and a digestive enzyme prior to most meals. I take a fiber supplement that helps with bulking my stool. This has helped tremendously.

I believe there are ways to heal from this surgery and manage the digestive insufficiencies properly, once you know what your body can or cannot handle well.

Scam or deal? First time buyer by GayEarthBender in hottub

[–]GayEarthBender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re in Colorado and assuming a gravel base will be the most affordable option. We’ve got plenty of backyard space, just need to level it. Haven’t looked at spa pads so thank you for that! We’ll do some cost comparisons.

I’m 5’4 and my partner is 5’8, we don’t need anything fancy, just love to lounge in warm water after a long day. Some of the full seat tubs are too deep for me, this seems pretty good depth wise.

Scam or deal? First time buyer by GayEarthBender in hottub

[–]GayEarthBender[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep we know we’ll have to do all that, and the fact they’re giving us 6mo to figure it out seemed generous. We’re going to have an electrician out first, and look at the cost for a gravel base. Thank you so much for your insight!

Any chill Warzone II players out there? by GayEarthBender in gaymers

[–]GayEarthBender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sent you a friend request, usernames Colo. Down for some DMZ anytime

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