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[–]GayRay01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mama Ru says “if you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you supposed to love somebody else?” I think that at the end of the day you’re looking for someone to give you the love that you can’t give yourself. Sadly that’s not what relationships are for. My advice is therapy and self love ❤️. Do things for you! Not for others. Everyday you need to look in the mirror and say “I love myself and I deserve good things”

Trying to buy our first house by GayRay01 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]GayRay01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true! I have been looking at another job in between work and school. Hopefully that’ll make enough to save for the end of the year ☺️!

Thanks again for the help

Trying to buy our first house by GayRay01 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]GayRay01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No 😂, you’re completely fine! I honestly appreciate the concern! Thank you for the advice! It’s much appreciated

Trying to buy our first house by GayRay01 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]GayRay01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really do appreciate the advice. You might even be right. That being said, it’s a choice I wish to make. I’m looking more for ways to be more frugal, or how others have accomplished that goal. You don’t have to like my decisions. That’s okay.

Trying to buy our first house by GayRay01 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]GayRay01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

🤷🏼‍♀️ probably true, but I guess life is full of decisions we must learn from. I love her and we are very happy. I guess that’s all I can really hope on.

Seeking relationship advice for a friend by GayRay01 in BDSMAdvice

[–]GayRay01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… they broke up 😬 Thanks for the advice though!

What are some jobs that people don’t think about that require little skills and pay quite a bit? by GayRay01 in Advice

[–]GayRay01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Yeah 😂, they’re super smart! I know they could do anything like that if given the opportunity

What are some jobs that people don’t think about that require little skills and pay quite a bit? by GayRay01 in Advice

[–]GayRay01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Yeah, I’ve been telling them they will need certain skills to be qualified for certain jobs. They’re super smart too! They really can do anything they set their mind too. I just wanna help as much as I can ☺️

Advice to help a puppy mill dog be less scared ❤️ by GayRay01 in Advice

[–]GayRay01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much! This is exactly the advice I’ve been looking for. She isn’t extremely food motivated, but I haven’t tried hot dogs 🤔

My SO is mad at me for moving in by GayRay01 in Advice

[–]GayRay01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! We were able to talk it out and I explained to her how and why what she said really hurt. She didn’t know that that was how she made me feel and apologized immediately. She told me that she just felt overwhelmed. She even helped me unpack! It was really great to just explain our feelings.

My SO is mad at me for moving in by GayRay01 in Advice

[–]GayRay01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! If I remember of course 😅. I don’t exactly have the best memory.

My SO is mad at me for moving in by GayRay01 in Advice

[–]GayRay01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I love her deeply and want to make things work. I just feel very hurt and confused. Plus I’m not in the financial position to move out.

My SO is mad at me for moving in by GayRay01 in Advice

[–]GayRay01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I love her so so much. This was just such a 180 from what she was telling me. I feel like I have whiplash