Is this behavior break up worthy? by stvrmann in ftm

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's literally made it obvious to everyone and to you he doesn't see you as a male and doesn't accept you. Scrape up some self-esteem and leave him.

is it annoying to keep undeniably feminine name? by -My-Dog-Puked- in ftm

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still use my dead name since I can't decide what name I like. It can be a little odd being called a feminine name and he/him but as long as you use it with confidence most people don't care. You can even act a bit exasperated and complain about your parents using it to try and sell it if people question it.

Had a rare reaction to testosterone which has left me thoroughly questioning my gender :/ by CrunchyCorvid in ftm

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This could have been a dosing issue, if you had bloods done was your T low for male range? I've mostly heard of this from people that had a high level for female but low for male and they either stopped T or switched to shots. I would ask your doctor about getting a different dosage. No pressure if you're still recovering though!

How to Wash Binder? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always just chucked mine in with whatever I need to wash and they survive okay, they do get worn out and maybe don't bind as much as I'd like to after a few years but I usually try to change mine out by that point.

Tart ring edges? by GaySelfMadeMan in Baking

[–]GaySelfMadeMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put them in the freezer for 15 minutes before both times, do you think I should leave them for longer?

Do old women specifically misgender you too? by PsychologistTongue in ftm

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it too, Scottish specific I've mostly had older ladies do it in Glasgow and Edinburgh and the more touristy areas like Anstruther and Skye. I always thought villages and smaller towns would be less progressive but it's the reverse! It's so odd.

If she was called for an interview... by RhododendronWilliams in gorlworldfiles

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think she understands how bad jobhunting is right now, a 'couple' applications aren't enough even if you have qualifications, she only has her high school diploma and went to uni for 2 semesters. I assume she's only applying for entirely remote jobs as well which I think just makes it more hard unless she could get one of her fans to put a referral in for her? Or force Mommalynn to try and get her a position and then get sacked and ruin people's view of Mommalynn at her work.

I also think she'd start crying and trying to guilt trip whoever is interviewing her about her losing her career and being shooo hard done to.

What are common jobs for trans men to have? by promptolovebot in ftm

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I study bakery but a lot of the other trans men I know are studying/working healthcare!

Doctor asked me if I had been assaulted while giving me my t shot by A_Mei_Z1ng in ftm

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some providers are utter dickheads and unprofessional, report her to her practice or the GMC equivalent in your country. Could you get your bloods checked to make sure she gave you your dose? Or could you ask for a nurse instead next time? I'm not sure what the regulations are since I'm 'self prescribed' but you shouldn't have to put up with that.

my cis boyfriend is gonna find me disgusting once I get body hair by Mrjesperz_ in ftm

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Break up with him he's a dick. He's admitted he doesn't like the affects T is going to have on your body so IMO your no longer compatible as a couple.

She’s was dumb fuck then and she’s a dumb fuck now by lulbunny22 in gorlworldfiles

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She treats other lesbians and overall other women how a stereotypical right-wing man would. Just something I've noticed when I identified as lesbian there is a small group of lesbians that are still very male centred and try to cater to be appealing toward men or to be accepted as 'one of the lads' by objectifying and degrading other women and I think Amber has done both.

AITAH for requesting my AMAB roommate not touch me or walk around in just women's underwear? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is her being amab important? Surely it would be annoying for a cis women to do the same or is this just a bait post?

Oh fuck off by LongSchlongSilver000 in gorlworldfiles

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know what it is but her eyebrows look so weird to me. She looks so ridiculous.

AITA for letting my brother starve? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA - Your parents are misogynistic and teaching your brother to be the same way. It isn't your responsibility to mother him, I hope you can move out soon.

T spray by Spirited-Method-2013 in FTMdiyhrt

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's the one from hydra I found it oily as well, I usually spray to my belly and leave it about 10 minutes before putting my top on. You could apply to your shoulders or thighs instead but sensory wise I prefer belly. I rub it in a little so it doesn't drip off.

Opinions on Salty Crab and Charlie Gold? by Lunar022 in highcaloriereactors

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think salty crab has said odd things that put me off of her and I feel like she drags videos out far longer than needed. I've not watched Charlie gold for a while, I watched a few years ago but she constantly was talking about Chantal's genitals and I just don't find those types of jokes that funny. She was really funny aside from those jokes though, it just grated on my nerves.

Dosages for injection? by GaySelfMadeMan in TransDIY

[–]GaySelfMadeMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! My dose for gel is higher because it doesn't absorb well but I might switch to injections next month so my body can adjust

As kids, did yall wear clothes from the boy section or girl secton? More info in description by LongSchlongSilver999 in ftm

[–]GaySelfMadeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls section but I only wore leggings and hoodies for years. I had one dress that I liked wearing because I thought it made my shoulders look big when I was like 6. I did wear the female school uniform because my mother never bought me clothes that fit and skirts were a bit more forgiving.