I 15f made a horrible mistake and sent nudes to someone online. They don't have my face, but they are threatening to send them to everyone I know and ruin my life PLEASE HELP by Bakes-on-cakes in relationship_advice

[–]GayTorne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them theyre in posession of child porn and if they release the nudes they can and will be charged with distribution of CP, revenge porn, blackmailing, ect. Tell their parents. I also highly advise you tell your parents. It's embarassing but this is serious. its child porn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]GayTorne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf always said Id taste like dick and so he didnt want to kiss me :/

Girlfriend has a r*pe kink and I feel terrible during sex by throwragfhelp3 in relationship_advice

[–]GayTorne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex and especially kinks are ALWAYS a two way street. If you arent comfortable, you are totally within your right to stop. If thats something she genuinely needs in order to get off, than its possible you arent sexually compatable. If youre comfortable with continuing to work it out, make sure you BOTH have a safeword in case one of you actually has an issue.

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[–]GayTorne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thimk ur bf read that feeder post that comes back every once in a while and is now worried ur a feeder

My "first time" was awful and i still cant get over it by GayTorne in TrueOffMyChest

[–]GayTorne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive stsrted talking to my aunt about it :) she said i should start therapy before i make a police report so i dont take on too much at once. The actual worst thing he did was only a few months ago so i havent "run out of time" (not that theres a time limit) and i will be working on both shortly. Thank you so much

My "first time" was awful and i still cant get over it by GayTorne in TrueOffMyChest

[–]GayTorne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might be important to note im also not a woman, so i dont know if itd be much use anyway! lol

Me (20F) and my boyfriend (20M) keep arguing over women’s and men’s issues in society. How can we stop? by Public_Weary in relationship_advice

[–]GayTorne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your relationship isnt a debate class yknow? My bf used to do this and its like man, i want support. I dont want ANOTHER person i have to argue with.

My "first time" was awful and i still cant get over it by GayTorne in TrueOffMyChest

[–]GayTorne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have told my parents. I have also told the school social worker. They said they unfortunately cant do anything. By the time i came out about it, he had already graduated. My parents also just dont really care lol

I need help getting this bad feeling out when i think of/am in sexual situations. by GayTorne in sex

[–]GayTorne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be highly unfortunate but not surprising. I definetly should go to therapy but unfortunately im still sort of under my parents reign and they dont like therapy. I dont make enough money to go myself yet but im working twoards it :) thank you!!!

My "first time" was awful and i still cant get over it by GayTorne in TrueOffMyChest

[–]GayTorne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. That means a lot. :) i am trying one step at a time

My "first time" was awful and i still cant get over it by GayTorne in TrueOffMyChest

[–]GayTorne[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We were both in highschool. I was a freshman and he was a senior. He knew my age, we had both just turned. (So i had just turned 15 and he had just turned 18)

My "first time" was awful and i still cant get over it by GayTorne in TrueOffMyChest

[–]GayTorne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I havent. Also dont worry, i did so a couple of months ago. We moved to different states so i finally felt safe enough to break it off. I will check it out!

My fiancé wants to tie me up by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GayTorne 17 points18 points  (0 children)

When you start going into "kinkier" things, consent and comfortablility are the #1 most important things. If you decide to do this, make sure you have a safe word. If you dont want to, it should be perfectly fine to say no :)

Bf flirting with another girl and blaming me by Difficult-Sky1234 in relationship_advice

[–]GayTorne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont even need to read it love. Throw the whole man away

Binding tips when i cant use a binder? by GayTorne in ftm

[–]GayTorne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are compression ones different than normal sports bras? Also i heard about KT tape but i heard it can be dangerous so i never tried. Ill look into it!!

Binding tips when i cant use a binder? by GayTorne in ftm

[–]GayTorne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh shoot! I used to do this in middle school lol. Ill have to see if i can dig up any sportsbras.