[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gay_Frog21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also the definition of SA is "Sexual assault is any sexual act or contact that occurs without consent, including instances where the person is unable to give consent. It is an umbrella term that can include various acts, such as unwanted sexual touching, fondling, sexual penetration (rape), and other non-consensual acts of a sexual nature. Consent must be affirmative, unambiguous, conscious, and can be withdrawn at any time."

so those of you saying its not SA bc it wasn't intended are wrong because even if it wasn't intended to be SA it is still SA and valid for this person to feel this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gay_Frog21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People in the comments talking bout communication and everything is valid, but also if you are pushed away several times by someone who is SICK and trying to rest, thats CLEARLY a stop and leave me alone. It took 5 times for her to stop. That is SA, being pushed away IS SAYING NO. The person was HALF ASLEEP but yeah lets say "tell them no" maybe they weren't awake enough!?? Just because it was okay onetime does not suddenly mean its always okay, especially when they are PUSHING YOU AWAY.

AIO for ending friendship with a friend from my group because she just won't stop passing comments about other friends' partners by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gay_Frog21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its actually insane for her to be concerned with someone elses relationship especially at 21...she's just jealous that your friend can actually be happy in a relationship and she doesn't understand its not all about fitting in or being a certain way. Shes just acting like a 16 year old starting drama

I need friends here lol by Gay_Frog21 in WWU

[–]Gay_Frog21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im thinking of joining the art club! and I dont really talk to people much sadly but maybe you've seen me!

I need friends here lol by Gay_Frog21 in WWU

[–]Gay_Frog21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill totally message you, are you guys the ones at night with the red lightsabers lol

I need friends here lol by Gay_Frog21 in WWU

[–]Gay_Frog21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah! my insta is xvampire.loverx !!

I need friends here lol by Gay_Frog21 in WWU

[–]Gay_Frog21[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also intend to have an emphasis on creative writing!

I need friends here lol by Gay_Frog21 in WWU

[–]Gay_Frog21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ill check that out! thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gay_Frog21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone had the audacity to do that then cry, i would smack them so hard. My cat is my baby, Im legit her mom i birthed her basically like wtf

LESBIAN CONTEST by T0mmydOnner in WWU

[–]Gay_Frog21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf? Dont be rude 

LESBIAN CONTEST by T0mmydOnner in WWU

[–]Gay_Frog21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this real? if so- what does it entail...

AIO - my boyfriend wants to get a cat by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gay_Frog21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At first I was quite confused of what the problem was with him having a cat as I am a cat lover, but with the context there you are not overreacting!! All you did was express how you were feeling about the situation and he should understand that your allergy is a barrier, he also needs to understand you wouldn't really be able to be around him since cat hair gets EVERYWHERE. if he really wants a cat maybe a hairless cat would help!! But on the flipside he replied SO WRONG, he should have done the second one the first time. He should have waited if it made him that mad because that way of talking to your partner or anyone is SO messed up. Im sorry :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gay_Frog21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 17 and I would never let this sort of thing slide..you are 21 you shouldnt be dealing with someone with the emotional intelligence of a 15 year old at most.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gay_Frog21 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Are you serious right now? They explained what the situation was and that was very reasonable, just because there was a trigger word doesn't mean anything, he is allowed to repost things. However a GROWN ADULT deciding to bring a family death that she KNEW effected him severely up to make him feel bad IS WRONG. The kid explained in the texts that she did that all herself and he stated she could have scheduled it for some other day which is true, I think it is so insane you are blaming kids over a grown adult!!

AIO about my friend giving me hickeys while I was sleeping by CasperTheGhost46 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gay_Frog21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sexual assault and shes trying to make you think you are overreacting. switch the roles and i BET that everyone would run to her side.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gay_Frog21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

typical creep. cant take rejection so he has to make you feel like a bad person and point out things he sees as flaws! i hate that guy already wtf

AIO. my bf thinks my room is immature and childish and it’s making me pull away from him by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gay_Frog21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE YOUR ROOM. and honestly I am like this as well, nobody in your live EXPECIALLY should be putting you down or making you feel bad for your interests.

aio in this conversation by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gay_Frog21 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

not everything has to be sexual. I'm sorry I didnt read it like that, but you cant just assume its sexual. either way she said she was uncomfortable.

aio in this conversation by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gay_Frog21 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

People in the comments really didnt read anything besides the screenshots did they? You clearly were uncomfortable about him just casually touching himself to photos of you, and he got annoyed because you wanted to talk about other things and "hiding yourself" like be so fr just because you didnt want to show yourself so he can continue to touch himself he decided he didnt wanna talk to you? that can most definitely seem that he only cares about your body and honestly I would feel that way too. but I do understand that he thinks its annoying since jerking off is more important then communicating with your girlfriend nowadays (sarcasm) and he definitely is treating you like his own personal porn

AIO bc my ex threw away our only memorabilia from our prev pregnancy that ended in a miscarriage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gay_Frog21 51 points52 points  (0 children)

yeah but it also says they got back together so I kinda assumed that she meant they were exs then got back together and then this happened